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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 13, 2023

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I'm pretty sure it's popularity is attributable to Scott. Even if people using it don't read him, there's probably some community overlap that causes it to end up spreading to Youtube influencer communities, and then to influencers themselves, which is when it explodes.

In any case "motte/bailey" is one thing, I've started seing "assabiah". I swear, a year or two from now we'll start seeing manosphere types talking about "the Hock".

My search and reference skills are clearly lacking at the moment, so I have to be the one to ask; 'The Hock'?

"The Hock" is the Hock, our local Forever Alone poster's quest to find a waifu in the freezing tundra of Alaska.

Huh.

Given the men to women ratio in Alaska, that wouldn't have been my first choice. A better option would probably be the Pacific Trail, but what do I know.

Jesus. If I survive the Hock and then get a girlfriend, and manosphere types then pile onto the Hock...

Andrew Tate 2.0 in the Alaskan wilderness as a kind of Bear Grylls-esque manosphere grifter is going to be dangerous. That'd get a lot of few young dudes killed. I'd probably be collateral damage as the first jackass to do this, too.

I can assure you that if you successfully complete the Hock and then get a girlfriend it will have nothing to do with the Hock itself. I don't know how to tell you this without hurting you deeply, but most women don't give a shit about stuff like this. I'm an advanced skier. I've not only skied some of the gnarliest in-bounds terrain in North America, but I felt completely comfortable while dropping in even when I hadn't seen it before. I couldn't tell you the last time I stared down a line trying to get myself psyched up to do it. I don't generally mention this to women I'm trying to date. Hell, I was out with a girl last weekend and while the subject of skiing came up, I only mentioned it because she asked me about my hobbies. I left it at "skiing" and didn't elaborate. And I was hoping more that she skied as well because I have a great group of ski buddies and we have a lot of fun in the winter and it would be nice to include her in something like that. If I had brought up all the gnarly shit in a desperate attempt to prove what a badass I am, at best she would have ignored it, and at worst it would have made me look like a self-aggrandizing asshole.

You're also forgetting that if it even were something that impressed women, you still have to get the date in the first place. Unless you're going out a lot already you better solve this problem before you do anything. What are you going to do, approach women at bars and tell them apropos of nothing that you went on a survivorman expedition and by the way, do you want to go out with me? Also, keep in mind that even if this does work, unless she's already well-versed in outdoor survival it's not going to make much difference what you actually do. Any girl who doesn't ski isn't going to be impressed when I tell her I ski the Pali face at A-Basin because to her that's completely meaningless. To her, even an intermediate run would look like instant death. The only girl who I could see that being a positive to is one who skis about as well as I do and is excited to have someone to share those experiences with. In other words, any girl who is going to be impressed by the Hock will probably be equally impressed by a guy who's been winter camping a couple times, unless she's also into that sort of thing.

We've tried man. He's in too deep now, he's made fliers and everything. Now he either has to do it or pretend to do it and never return to the motte after March of next year. In which case I'm making a documentary about my search for skookum... and possibly justice? (I'm trying to work in a true crime angle so I can sell it to Netflix.)

Look, SkookumTree has staked his whole reputation on this. If he doesn't do it, he will never be able to show his face around here again; anytime he tried to wade into the culture war thread, he would be dismissed with "isn't there a Hock you should be doing?" The mods can stop us from posting it, but nobody can stop us from thinking it. Skookum would become the laughingstock of the entire forum. What's he supposed to do, delete his account?

Better to die with dignity.

Eh, people are dumb, and the only way they ever get less dumb is by recognizing and correcting the dumbness they've previously committed to. Why hassle someone for desisting stupidity?

I thought it was sarcasm. A would-be alaskan lumberjack does not choose physical death over online ribbing.

Also reminds of the ‘jews/liberals condemning muslim immigration’ current thing and all the right-wingers who can’t take the W.

He made fliers? I missed that one. Please point me at them.

Truly A Motte Original.

I linked it in the other comment, but here it is again.

Pardon me, I must've missed it. Thanks for the spoonfeeding!

And ah, points for effort. I still don't quite think he'll go through with it, but I suppose this nudges my priors.

If you do this, PM me, I want to be involved.

Will do! But who will make the documentary about searching for us when we go missing searching for skookum?

David Zellner.

IIRC, he believes that his expedition will change him to such a degree that his newly-acquired badassness will shine through without needing explicit introduction.

Idk why you guys find that so necessarily implausible? Self confidence is a thing.

I'd say if being on track to become a doctor hasn't given him self confidence in the realm of dating women - where being a doctor is an outsized factor in success - then I think it's probably foolish to expect surviving in the Alaskan wilderness to do it. It's certainly possible, and in the general case, going through some difficult experience and surviving it through one's own wits and resourcefulness is going to help to build confidence. And it's also possible that he has a certain type of mindset such that accomplishing all that is required to become almost a doctor with the expectation of actually becoming one in the near future - no easy feat that a very small proportion of the population even have the capacity to do, much less actually carry it out - doesn't help his self confidence while surviving the Alaskan wilderness does (admittedly, this is arguably an even more difficult feat). To me, it also seems to be a rather extreme next step and taking on far more risk than is worth the reward, but it seems that the extremeness is the point, so what do I know, I guess.

I for one doubt that that Skookum will succeed in generating that kind of self-confidence by walking over an Alaskan mountain. I think he has mental issues that seem unlikely to be resolved by such actions, and I also suspect that he simply won't go through with it in the end.

And I don't mean to be offensive, I have nothing against him as such, but from what he's written so far he seems to be sometimes lucid and sometimes straight-up delusional, apparently depending entirely on the topic. I think our man has a problem, and I don't think it's a lack of self-confidence, and I don't think the solution is skiing up a mountain.

I'm not exactly sure what your plans are, but Chris McCandless died in a schoolbus in Alaska in 1992, later made famous by Into the Wild and a more recent movie, and just a few years ago the state had to remove the bus because tourists kept drowning or getting lost trying to find it.

We've been trying to persuade him not to embark on his stupid, pointless masturbatory exercise for months. He's having none of it.

My bet is there's no need, he'll drop it on his own sooner or later, probably before spending two nights outdoors.

For every Chris McCandless, there are probably a hundred dead fools that aren't made famous like this and don't have pilgrimages.

You’re most of the way to being a doctor and have US citizenship. Just wait until you’re an American doctor and marry a Filipina or a Colombian instead of wandering around rural northern Alaska in winter. They won’t care if you happen to be ugly and socially awkward when you’re a doctor with US citizenship.

She is still going to be disgusted twice over, as I am now: by my unattractiveness, and by my hypocrisy. Why not attempt the Hock and if I survive, marry a Filipina or a Columbian? I also kind of like the idea that awkward or unattractive people - especially awkward and unattractive men - should choose their own Hock or at least seriously consider it. The pointlessness is the point.

Seriously, he is? Man, between "being a doctor" and "did some pointless nature challenge", doctor wins out very easily for female attention. Let alone the US part.

Though I kind of have to snicker imagining him actually completing the Hock, but everytime he tries to tell a woman she just wants to talk about him being a doctor all day.

Though I kind of have to snicker imagining him actually completing the Hock, but everytime he tries to tell a woman she just wants to talk about him being a doctor all day.

Which is exactly what happens. Unless you're a professional athlete (in which fame generates Sexual Marketplace Value) I promise women don't care about your amazing physical achievements.

I believe you; I have said many times before that the Hock is pointless physical suffering and risk. I don't think many people will be impressed by my having completed the Hock. They'll think I am either lying, or crazy. It's the effects of the Hock on my character and personality that are going to make the difference for me: having endured pointless suffering and mortal danger, I am now worthy of love in a way that I was not before the Hock. I've described the idea that my desire for sex and relationships is fundamentally hypocritical at the moment (because I'm asking someone to endure some gross shit I'm not OK with doing myself) and disgusting (because I think this form of hypocrisy is a little gross). Yes, there's also the disgust that comes from the very unattractive (and this is NOT just physical!) wanting sex and relationships, but my motivation for the Hock is basically that it'll freeze the hypocrisy and a bit of the disgust off of me. I've also always been curious about how I'd fare in a Bear Grylls-style survival situation/polar expedition type deal, and this is the time to either do my business, or vacate the throne...

And what good would it do you to end up probably being the next entry in this long list?

This very morning, I saw "Catgirl Kulak" quoted second-hand on Ace of Spades.

Not quite "penetrating ze cabinets" yet, but we almost got there with Cummings after all.

I saw that too and was debating sending it to him.

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