Some of you (OK so like... three of you) may remember the last time I ran a survey on political values; I was really happy with the responses everybody gave me at TheMotte, and now a few other people I know who post on Substack are wanting to use the results to answer some questions of their own. So long story short, here's another poll:
Don't worry if you think you're unusual and might skew the results - in fact we'd very much appreciate your perspective, whatever it is.
Thanks guys!
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I was reading the items on Aella's graph and my face hardening into an ever more pronounced frown the further right I went.
It seemed more logical to me to start from the right.
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I didn't click on the Aella link bc I'm at work. Nevertheless, I chose "past 4" with confidence. Take that as you may.
I expected to fall farther to the right than I actually ended up, although I suspect I'm still farther to the right than most people close to me would figure. I think that's probably common. I went on to take her actual survey, I found it interesting. I also read several of her write-ups about her insights about the data on her substack.
I do think you should probably look at the "past 4" section before being confident about telling people you're in there.
Yeah, I assumed I'd get "past 4" but I didn't (though it was a ruler-effort due to
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Ha, I already regret writing it here. It seemed funny to me when it happened, so I posted it here, but it comes of as overly edgy in retrospect.
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So you're into at least one of these (scat, grandparent/child incest, necrophilia, pedophilia, executions, bestiality, brutality, mother/daughter incest)?
Mother/daughter is a smidgen below 4. I checked at max size.
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Yes.
On another note, am I the only one who thinks scat and the two incests seem out of place compared to the others? In particular mother/daughter seems outright tame to me.
Scat is there because poo contains coliforms and if those wind up in your mouth you are reasonably likely to get sick.
"Mother/daughter" is a smidgen below 4, actually, and I believe that's a misstatement of general "parent/child" (there are no categories listed for "mother/son", "father/son", or "father/daughter").
And yes, necrophilia/paedophilia/executions/bestiality score higher than the rest.
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It's not that clear to me what they mean with "mother/daughter". Looking at a daughter and a mother having sex (incest porn)? Or for a daughter to want to have sex with her own mother? Or for a mother to have desires for her daughter? Because incest porn is quite widespread, but it's not the same as being excited by your own daughter.
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At least in the survey, incest has an escalating rate of expected disapproval as age gaps and reproductive risks start getting involved, starting with sister-sister as the least taboo (presumably het guys with twin threesome fantasies?), with an exception for brother-brother and father-son incest being considered more taboo (... presumably because there's a lot of het guys in the sample).
There's also a lot of items that weren't included in the final v3 graph or v3 taboo survey which were in the v2 taboo survey, and were probably more heavily focused on disgust or norm violations than such severe norm violations that they were clear violations of law. Not sure if they were dropped do to low interest or expected overlap with other statements, or just to streamline the survey.
That said, the survey asked about what you expected social ramifications would be, were you revealed to be interested in the topic to family or strangers, which is probably going to different results than whether something is tame or weird. The central case of parental incest in the real world and especially real-world awareness is incredibly abusive, and that's likely to drive how people expect social response to be, even if a lot of the people who fantasize usually have a wildly different focus.
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The thought that a person could be sexually aroused by any item on this list fills me with a profound, disquieting horror. There are differences in degree (scat horrifies me less than paedophilia), but none of them fail to horrify me.
If it's any consolation, I'm about as vanilla as it gets irl. I'm lucky insofar as I don't have an obligate fetish; I get off on perfectly normal sex with my wife just fine. But the fact remains, we don't have control over what turns us on, and for some people that includes some fucked up things.
Oh wild.
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I'm pretty far left on that scale myself; on the other hand, I was shocked to learn that people I know and trust are far to the right.
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I found that graph very funny. "Sensuality" listed as a fetish stunned me for a second.
There is apparently a continuum of tabooness from white to Asian to black...
"Indifference" is a fetish now.
There's a subreddit called something like "bored and ignored", for videos of couples having sex and the woman is paying no attention to the man e.g. because she's too engrossed in the video game she's playing. Half a million subscribers - no idea how that compares to other fetish subs but it seems like there's a sizeable market for this kind of content.
[cw: links are all login-walled, but still porn]
"Disinterested sex" or "distracted sex" are some other kinks that probably get lumped into the same category: for some furry examples see SamurShalem (gay, straight with open relationship content), Jishinu (straight) or Braeburned (gay). This can sometimes be femdomish or about embarrassing the top, but it's often as much someone being accommodating or challenging the top to impress them, or a kinder and gentler (and less stranger-focused) freeuse sorta thing.
How do you make the 18+ thing come up?
For comments, after you've submitted a comment, click the "..." button to the right of "Delete", and then click "Mark 18+".
For posts, there's a selectable box under the main text box, between "Notify Followers" and "Draft". I believe Posts can similarly be marked 18+ after-publication from the "..." menu.
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I'm learning so much about you people from this thread, and not all of it is things that I wanted to know about you people.
Apologies for the TMI.
You're all good, I'm only joshing.
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I've heard in the porn industry, a white girl doing a scene with a black guy pays more than a white girl doing anal with a white guy.
"Some studios pay white women more for their perceived willingness to perform IR scenes, and white women can launch lucrative careers by planning a trajectory that leads up to interracial porn."
https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2017/07/164569/racism-pay-interracial-porn-industry-glamour
Mutt's law being what it is, I can only assume so.
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Apparently some of the softer or more romantic 'kinks' were added because "iirc Tailcalled was like “you seem to be weak in items around romance/gentle/sweet stuff”".
"Tabooness" is specifically "how much would society judge you" in the taboo survey, specifically:
Notably, it does not have the disclaimer about fantasy that the kink survey did. So it's got a lot of overloading, somewhat at cross purposes. Most stuff on the >80% is the sort of conduct that gets you jailed and/or disowned, while most of the <40% is stuff that at most would be awkward.
Another question: if incest is hovering around 1 in average reported interest, why for the last ~ten years has the front page of Pornhub been dominated by stepbrother, stepson, stepdaughter etc.?
Does it have some correlates that are otherwise hard to search for directly? I imagine for example that the incest framing would be anticorrelated with the actors being old or trashy, or the action being violent or non-passionate. Maybe it's simply the easiest way to find nice vanilla sexual encounters between normal-looking people in a domestic setting.
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I don't know about pornhub but I know on xvideos that the website automatically appends "step" to words like "brother" or "dad" (and also completely removes other certain words) so maybe pornhub operates the same way
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One side's that the Likert Scale has some really awkward ramifications, and while it's well-accepted as a scientific tool (so I can't blame individual researchers for using it), I'm not convinced it should be. It's notoriously prone to anchoring problems, but worse than that it tends to give a very constrained summary of its results. An average score of 1 can reflect either reflect all of your participants saying that they find it only the slightest bit arousing, or ~15% finding it the most arousing thing ever and everyone else hating it, or anywhere in-between.
In practice, this kinda averages out for all but the most polarizing interests (eg, "gay men" has 15,878 zero scores to the 34,977 "brosis" does in the raw data despite 'only' having a 1.5ish score), but it still means 25% report at least "somewhat arousing" to brother/sister.
Which is only part of the explanation; I don't know non-fur stuff that well, but from your reaction it sounds like 25% would be a low estimate for the front page of pornhub (and I don't think my checks would be representative).
The other side's kinda boring. At least for video, 'incest' as a kink is cheap and easy to advertise for how taboo it is. Trivially, a lot of it's just random videos uploaded with an eye-catching title, but even a video leaning very heavily into the genre only needs two porn actors/actresses and a video camera. Ideally somewhat similar-looking actors and actresses, but honestly when you strap 'step' onto the front they don't even necessarily have to be the same race. That makes it a lot easier to produce content (and with clear weightings for recently uploaded content, that matters), and for that content to get enough interest to be promoted to the front page. (To be unreasonably charitable, it also means that people really squicked by incest can avoid the stuff easily, rather than getting a money shot and then faked moans of "hey bro".)
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Presumably the inclusion of "step" means it's not incest people seek, but, as someone else put it, a potential sexual partner you don't need to painstakingly swipe on Tinder/barfly/scan friends' groups for because you're already intimately familiar.
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This is like a spicyness scale but about halfway through you stop eating chillis and start getting actual literal lava put in your mouth.
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I'm very surprised insects was so far to the right. I thought that stuff was mainstream.
I am surprised that oviposition was to the left of bestiality. Is it because giant insects with penis-sized ovipositors don't exist, but people might think you could have actually fucked a dog if you tell them you have such books in your collection?
The taboo survey doesn't emphasize fantasy the way the kink survey does, which probably has some impact.
At least from the survey format, I also wouldn't have associated oviposition with giant (non-sapient) insects, tbh. I've probably been spoiled because of the furry fandom having a lot of dragons or eggs sometimes just happening, but even for non-furs I would associate it more with stuff like silicone eggs or aliens/monsters, especially post-Alien, or (more rarely) as a sanitized pregnancy/birth kink first. There was another question that was more focused on infestation sorta stuff that seems a closer fit to the often-degradation-focused insect egg kink, though no guarantee that the average survey-taker would get the questions in the same order.
Oviposition's still weird, but it's not the sorta thing you'd get taken to court or jail over the way abusing an animal can.
I had no idea these were two separate surveys.
Yeah, it's more explicit on her site. The taboo survey had many fewer responses (around 1300 to the around 30,000 of the kink survey as of Aug 2023) and looks like it was collected more heavily from Aella's readership until later in the process (where she started to sell through Positly). She assumes that a lot of the taboo stuff will converge quickly with fewer data points because it's such a social thing, and that's probably not wrong, and keeping the surveys separate probably does help avoid lower kinks scores because of people feeling shamed about kinks.
Right, then my assumption makes sense, it's explicitly formulated as "what would people think". Someone's interest in sexualized oviposition probably weirds out just as many people as their interest in sex with other species of mammals, but it creeps them out less, since it's clearly an imaginary act.
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((Apologies if I've missed sarcasm or Bee Movie joke.))
I think "insects" is short for "sexual scenarios involving creepy crawlies, like rodents, insects, etc.", so contextually probably more along the lines of live vermin touching you than "I will not eat the bugs/I will not live in the pod" or anthro bug material. I'm personally surprised it's not further to the right (perhaps because it's less likely to result in criminal charges?), but I'm pretty sure it's a fairly rare kink even in complete fantasy form.
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EXTERMINATUS
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Right? I mean who knew execution would be female-coded?
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Same, the bottom right quickly became nightmare fuel
Also, the way the wording on that question gave me pause, specifically on what constitutes “interest”. There’s certain things that I would possibly fantasize about or find fantasies of arousing, but would straight up never indulge in IRL even with an enthusiastic & willing partner.
Even as an atheist, I think a lot of this stuff is bad for your soul. And I don’t even believe in souls.
Yeah, this could stand to be more clearly described. The underlying kink survey specifically says:
And it's not really clear if the political survey is aiming the same direction.
ven within that there's going to be a lot of variation depending on how central an example of the class you want. The body horror question expands to "I find sexual scenarios involving body horror to be: such as mutations, bodyswap, malicious surgery, infestations", and there's going to be a very big disparity between "you're being Alien facehuggered", "The Thing thinks you're cute", "frankenstein'd heads" and this (cw: featureless nudity), but while it's the most overt variation it's far from the only one.
I'm guessing bestiality (survey question "meaning sexual interaction with at least one non-human animals/amphibians/insects/birds/etc. This is not being an animal") is more about non-sapient and non-talking critters, and that's something that I'm pretty uncomfortable in that 'bad for your soul' way even if it's 'just' a fantasy. But the strict definition includes even the standard furry anthros, and there's a reason that the Harkness Test is a thing in the furry fandom.
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With a little modification, I can see that as a good slogan for the Motte.
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