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I’ve often wondered if colonization was the ticket in the last several hundred years as a sort of purpose for at least some men. Go over the hill with a bunch of guys, build a new settlement and establish and build infrastructure and institutions that make the project self-sustaining. Such a purpose would be quite worthy, especially if it’s difficult and dangerous.
Yes, and it probably reduced the status anxiety of the colonists. A low-status man in England could go to India and be higher status than the natives at least.
This is one reason why 20th century colonialism is viewed so negatively even though it demonstrably improved standards of living in the colonized places. You can take a man's possessions, but steal his status and you have an enemy for life.
There weren't many low status men going to India except sailors and soldiers. Low status men can still join the army or navy today if they want an easy path.
But you are discounting the effect of knowing, every second of every day, that you are so much more advanced and better off - indeed so much better (in the eyes of the beholder) - than everyone else around you that you can treat them like pets or children. I doubt many men were enlisting specifically for a feeling of superiority, but being treated like a king is quite nice.
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Colonization also just killed off a ton of men. British colonial troops died of disease in absurd numbers when posted anywhere south of France. Even without fighting any battles, colonialism drained off thousands of useless or aimless men every year.
It also provided a route to riches and fame for the lucky few. It's one of those high-risk high-reward strategies that down on their luck men have always gravitated towards throughout history. And honestly, it's a great trade for both society and those men, since they typically don't have much to offer otherwise.
Nowadays the only real high-risk high-reward strategy for ambitious men is to try and found a company, but that selects for such high IQ and conscientiousness that it's not a real strategy for any but the top percentage of the distribution.
What about gambling?
That works too, but society at large doesn't reward the successful gambler the same way they would reward the successful colonialist.
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Before that it was the military, hunting mamoths and other ventures. Not all young men are going to be pacified. Some are going to get organized and start an adventure. It may be selling drugs, it may be joining a radical political movement or some other high risk high reward strategy. Crime is often portrayed as being caused by poverty when in reality a lot of crime isn't commited in order to pay for food and rent, it is committed for status. There is no dignity or way to meet attractive women for a loser guy. Join a gang and there is a risk of death and prison but also a chance of meeting hot women.
You can meet hot women by getting a decent job and going to bars. The allure of gangs is a brotherhood, fighting alongside men who will die to protect you, and vice versa. Even if the gangster life is often brutal, it's a far more real type of connection and community than the mainstream modern world offers.
I think what you’re forgetting is that gang recruits are teenaged boys who see an immediate route to status, money, and success with the opposite sex. This isn’t the fifties- no teenaged girls are dreaming about marrying engineers(and the sorts of boys who are recruited into gangs are not going to become engineers anyways). Gangbanging successfully is high status among these lads peers, including their opposite sex peers, and that’s what’s important for the discussion.
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I don't think this is a refutation. The existence of a more optimal approach to an end doesn't rule out the possibility that other more risky approaches are motivated by the same end.
Sure you can get a good job to get women instead of risking prison, but you might not have thought it through!
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