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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 28, 2022

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It's a very interesting question as to what was going on. A genuine mistake? Guy was high/drunk/impaired in some capacity and imagined he brought a suitcase with him? Opportunistic "oooh that case looks nice, mine now!"?

I don't know if he was trying to specifically steal a woman's case to get women's clothes, he seems to have no problem getting women's wear usually (although sheesh there are some awful looking photos online where he looks like he's trying out for the edgy Zoomer version of the Joker in an arthouse movie). If it's true that there are photos/video of him travelling with the case, it sounds more like he stole the case to have the suitcase. That there are supposedly images of him flying around with the suitcase strongly indicates that; if he stole it for the content, wouldn't he have dumped the case because that wasn't what he was after?

I'm very dubious about this person (how do you refer to non-binary, anyway? "guy" is offensive, yes?) because of the dressing up but on the other hand, he (they?) do seem to at least have qualifications and experience for the job, so it's not a complete diversity and inclusion hire.

If they did steal the suitcase, and there isn't a reason (e.g. blitzed out of their head on prescription medication) then yeah, probably should be a firing offence. Robbing and thieving is a bad thing, even if the alleged new normal is not to bother prosecuting shoplifters. Even leaving aside the whole "is this a sexual fetish offence?", plain old "stealing" is enough. Another question that comes to mind is do they have a habit of doing this, like kleptomania? Will we hear about other little bits and pieces Mx Brinton picked up here and there? If so, then definitely firing and go get treatment for this.

He didn't have any checked luggage, so I'm not buying any claims of misunderstanding. This is just regular theft.

Even if it started as a mistake it became theft the moment he didn’t return the suitcase to the airline. No reason he couldn’t have brought it back after realizing.

I'm very dubious about this person (how do you refer to non-binary, anyway? "guy" is offensive, yes?)

I imagine the PC term is "person", as you guessed. Personally I would say guy, because non-binary isn't a legitimate identity, and he is a guy.

how do you refer to non-binary, anyway? "guy" is offensive, yes?

If they can commit a stereotypically male sex crime they can be referred to as a male is my view.

Qualifications aside, it still seems like a red flag for a raging case of Main Character Syndrome. My dude, get over yourself and put on some business casual.

Seriously. I am pretty damn unconcerned about what people wear to work, for the most part. But the way he dresses is just straight up trashy. It screams "I'm an attention seeking person who actively tries to offend those around me". That's not really the sort of person I would hire for any job.

I can't believe we're ruining Biden's genius plan of sticking some women's underwear in nuclear waste casks and having this guy waltz off with them for us. We were this close to solving the spent fuel issue for good, damn it.

If this guy could really manage it, maybe their career wouldn’t be so radioactive.