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Culture War Roundup for the week of January 20, 2025

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Okay, you're back to baiting. You've been told about this before. A lot.

I'm kind of torn on what to do here. You're a long-timer who many people enjoy reading, you have interesting perspectives, and you've earned one (but only one) AAQC.

On the other hand, you seem to always just be biding your time until you can unload more sneering at "mayos." I am not fond of people who are only here to shit on the people they hold in contempt, who are just itching to let those people know how much contempt they hold them in.

You are overall someone who probably is a net positive here, as annoying as you are, but you've got a long rap sheet, and the last few bans have been of increasing length, with notes that this is your "final warning" and you probably deserve a permaban next time. In fact, at one point you were permabanned but enough members spoke up in your favor that we reduced it to 20 days.

That was four bans ago.

Most people would have been permabanned by now. You probably should be permabanned. You do seem to have a pattern of toning it down for a while after you return from a ban, but you don't really learn your lesson, because the seething contempt is always boiling just below the surface.

Against my better judgment, I'm only banning you for 90 days. (That was your last ban length also.) This comment in itself was pretty mild, it's just that it's the kind of comment you make over and over and over again every time you think you can get away with some more baiting.

Next time will probably depend on which mod deals with you, but I will have no mercy.

ETA: Post-ban editing to whine about the ban IMO deserves a permaban, but I'll throw it to the other mods to decide if they want to shorten it.

Really proving the point of my statement with that ban.

Dude, accusing me of all people here of feeling some sort of white ethnic defensiveness is both ridiculous and proves you just meant to insult people. I don't care if you think I, personally, am "mid" because of my mayo pallor, but you are not allowed to just throw generalized insults at your racial outgroup.

Had I said blacks as a race are mid nobody would have raised even a peep

You know this is not true. People say shit about whites, blacks, Jews, and Indians all the time here, but just dumping on an entire race because you want to express your contempt has always been modded.

Another (probably irrelevant) plea for some degree of clemency when it comes to BC, if only because while provocative he adds some interesting ideological diversity IMO. OTOH I recognise that being a mod is a thankless task and you've had to put up with him for longer than I've enjoyed him.

I think mods should either be AAQC-blind or make it explicit in the rules that if one has "good contributions", one can get away with blatant asking-for-it shitlording.

We have never been AAQC-blind and we've always been explicit that good contributors get more slack. The slack is finite, though. We've banned people with tons of AAQCs for repeated shitlording.

90 days is already very harsh, please do not permaban him.

Can't we reach a compromise in which he's not banned, but we're free to call him a Jeet?

This is the sort of diplomacy most international conflicts are sorely missing.

I like having BurdensomeCount around, and would be sad to see him banned.

My opinion probably doesn't count for all that much, but I like to think I'm one of the relatively more measured users here.