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				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					


As a friendless virgin I have no experience with such situations, but that's what I imagine.






But I am imagining that, in a perfect romance, even in such a banal conversation, you are thankful to have an excuse to bask in the presence and attention of your romantic partner (as long as the venting doesn't last overly long).




Look man, real life is neither grim redpill/blackpill despair nor a "perfect romance" where you are basking in each other's attention and affection. A functional and good relationship is one where you actually like each other and genuinely care about how your partner feels. Not one where you are playing roles from a romance anime, or just extracting money and sex from each other.




Absolutely. My coworkers would say "good morning", and I would reply "hello".




You do you, but to feel like you're engaging in intolerable social deception by saying "Good morning" is... weird.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
If you're not trolling, I can only wish you a better life and say it doesn't have to be like that.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Some people are naive, but having experienced functional relationships that teach you that they don't have to be miserable, cynical transactionalism is not naivety.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					


There are only two kinds of objects in a relationship, a sex object or a resource object




Goddamn, some people are miserable.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					


You literally just said that you don't care how her day was. Asking about how her day was is untruthfully implying that you do care.




I "don't care" in the sense that I don't care to hear the details or whether she had an argument with a coworker or it was unusually busy or the ventilation wasn't working so it was uncomfortable or the craziest thing happened at lunch or blah blah blah. That's stuff I listen to out of politeness. I don't literally "not care" whether she had a good day or a bad day.




She can vent to you on her own initiative, without forcing you to make untruthful implications about your own interest level.




Well, if I just silently glower when I come home and invite no dialog, she probably will not. Or I suppose I could say "I don't care how your day was, but you may tell me if you wish."


Jesus, dude.




Saying "good morning" to a person is an abbreviated wish that the person has a good morning, and therefore falsely implies that you hope that the person has a good morning. A much more neutral greeting with no misleading implications is "hello".




I mean, I probably do wish that someone has a good morning, because why wouldn't I, unless I have some personal animosity for this person?


You don't say "Good morning" because you think it's falsely implying you give a shit?


Jesus, dude.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
But it's not untruthfulness! I don't say "Hey, I really want to know about your day" or "I am really interested in what you did at work." I am just asking how her day was because it gives her an opportunity to talk (or vent) and I can show that even if I don't care about the details, I do care about her, and I want to know if she had a good day or a bad day. (And maybe, occasionally, something important really did happen.)


Do you literally not care about your partner at all? Maybe more men than I thought really do think of their women as sex appliances who annoyingly make mouth-noises at them sometimes.


On a more abstract level, your comic is inane. If my coworker says "Good morning," that is a social nicety. Social niceties are how people coexist in a crowded and complex society where a little pleasantness makes life more bearable. If someone (my wife, or a coworker, or a checkout clerk) asks "How was your day?" do I really think she cares deeply about how my day was and wants a detailed account of it? No, she is just being nice. Getting mad about that is like being mad when people say "Have a nice day" because you aren't, or "God bless you" when you sneeze because you're an atheist.


Goddamn, some people are miserable.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
The point isn't that anyone is assuming the story(ies) are made up. The point is that bullet point at the top that people love to ignore:




Posting links that could be summarized as 'Boo outgroup!' Basically, if your content is 'Can you believe what Those People did this week?' then you should either refrain from posting, or do some very patient work to contextualize and/or steel-man the relevant viewpoint.




In this case, there weren't even links. But if you cite a story about an insane black man setting a random passenger on fire on public transit, and your point is "Leftists have made it legal for insane black men to set people on fire," then yes, at the very least you need to post a link to the story so people can at least see if you might be leaving something out, and more importantly, "Here is a bad thing that happened and it's proof that my outgroup is very very bad, they literally made it legal to set people on fire!" is a crappy argument meant only to flash a boo light.


We all know (I am comfortable saying that despite it being "consensus building" because I do not believe anyone does not know) that people who want setting people on fire to literally be legal is a lizardman constant. "People want crime to be legal in Minnesota as long as it's for a leftist cause" is not how anyone, even on the left, would describe their position. ("They're lying!" you say, or "Their position is disingenuous and does not deserve charity." Too bad, that's not how things work here, you don't get to just assert that your enemies are all evil liars acting out of pure malice, whose stated motives do not even need to be considered.)


A more contextualized and steel-manned argument would be something like "Because of soft-on-crime policies and an unwillingness to deal with mentally ill homeless people, and racial sensitivity, it is now common for black criminals to get away with repeat offenses, even violent murders." Or "Leftists have institutional control and have repeatedly shown that they will apply the law in an unprincipled biased manner." That's at least a start at describing what you think is happening in a manner that sounds sane and would require your opponents to make a counter-argument that is more substantial than "No, I am not a crazy evil person who wants it to be legal for black men to set people on fire."


If you can't even be bothered to put in the minimal effort to assume that a non-batshit-insane counterargument exists (as the OP did not), then your post is bad and it's just outrage porn.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Sometimes I wonder what kind of women people are dating. They describe sex vampires who only want your money, and then are bitter because asking "How was your day?" is some kind of malicious kafka-trap.


A normal person asking how your day was is... asking how your day was. If she is your girlfriend/wife, it is generally because she cares about how your day was (or at least is willing to engage in a minimal level of concern to show affection and empathy). That's how things work in normal relationships. Do I actually care about how her day was? Eh, not unless something notable happened. But I will still ask because women like it when you do that. And they do the same thing.


If your partner is just a "sex object," of course you aren't going to ask how her day has been because you don't care. That's not actually a partner.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
What does that even mean? She asks how your day was every day? And you interpret this as a hostile interrogation?


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
I don't know if you are accurately reporting any of these stories. I am vaguely familiar with several of them, and I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you aren't being deliberately deceptive (though @Rov_Scam has already pointed out how at least one is misrepresented: "vandal gets standard deal to pay reparations in lieu of criminal sentencing" is not the same as "vandal gets off scott free").


The problem here is you have strung together a bunch of very boo, very outgroup anecdotes, without links or evidence, to claim that "Crime is legal in the state of Minnesota as long as you do it to support a left-wing cause." That's an obviously inflammatory statement with no value except to boo your outgroup who is very very bad and lawless and just the worst, boo! Booooooo! Boo Amirite guys?


You are certainly allowed to make this argument, or arguments like it: that DAs engage in selective prosecution, that leftists get away with things that rightists can't, that we live in an unequal fractured society, that BLM riots were treated differently than the Jan. 6 protesters. Etcetera etcetera etfuckingcetera. Well-trodden ground. Several regulars have pretty much staked this out as their beat.


You still have to actually put in the effort to link, substantiate, and post something more probative than "Crime is legal in Minnesota because leftists suck, here are some unsourced anecdotes I'll just assume we can all take at face value."


This is a very low quality post that typically results in low quality threads about how much people hate their enemies.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
No, "Someone makes inflammatory claims, no one contradicts him, so they must be true" is not how it works.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
I have experienced "shit tests" and annoying interrogations from women, but "How was your day?" isn't one of them.


"What is your plan for the day?" is the dangerous one.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Tchaikovsky churns out novels at Brandon Sanderson speed. He's a better writer than Sanderson, but it is starting to show.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
I tried the first Murderbot book and didn't much like it. It was very, uh, without being too uncharitable or invoking a @WhiningCoil rant, "female coded." The whole "found family" thing and the fact that progressives can read whatever gender politics they want into an asexual combat droid who presents as gruff and hard and just cannot with these stupid humans but actually has a soft gooey core is why they consider it leftist.


These people need to read them some Ursula Le Guin.


But Children of Time is one of my favorite modern SF books, so we're gonna fight.


Okay, not really. But - I will concede that Adrian Tchaikovsky is probably left-leaning. He cultivates a fairly inoffensive and apolitical social media presence, though what hints he has dropped indicate that he's generally on the progressive spectrum. His books are mostly not didactic or obvious in their politics, but again, tend to be vaguely progressive in their sentiments.


However, while I agree that the "solution" in Children of Time, forced genetic behavioral modification, was kind of horrific, it also made sense from the spiders' POV, and the humans were mostly villains escaping from an authoritarian system. I didn't read this as Tchaikovsky saying something about humanity's true inherent nature, but rather it was about these particular humans presenting an existential threat to the spiders, and the spiders coming up with a solution that wasn't "One of us must exterminate the other." It was actually a rather clever and very sf-ish solution.


I don't see this as particularly "progressive" coded, unless anything that doesn't end in military conflict is "progressive." I don't see overcoming disgust as inherently progressive coded. Maybe you think becoming comfortable with sentient spiders was supposed to be a metaphor for becoming comfortable with gays and trans, or with Muslim immigrants? I certainly didn't read it that way.


Also, spiders are fucking cool.


The rest of the series is also pretty good, though not as good as the first book.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Not every communist government has created famines, either. You can debate the relative badness of fascism versus communism if that scratches it for you, but objectively they have both always been pretty bad wherever they have been implemented. "His brutal police state only killed a few thousand people and was good for the economy" is not a ringing endorsement just because Stalin was worse.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Calling Singapore and Saudi Arabia "fascist" is a stretch, and Chile and Spain during their fascist eras were at least as bad as living under communism. As for Saudi Arabia, it's a pretty chill place to live if you are a Muslim man with no significant dissident tendencies, but otherwise not a great argument for your case either even if we label it "fascist."


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Every fascist government we've seen has been in the habit of authoritarian suppression and mass murder. While I agree that in theory there is nothing inherently "evil" about fascism, it only seems to appeal to people who want to be authoritarian mass murderers. "Nothing wrong with being fascists" sounds a little like "True communism has never been tried" to me.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of March 2, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					


My politics on this has evolved over time; at one point they were admirable titans of industry




You're gilding the past a bit. JP Morgan and Cornelius Vanderbilt and Andrew Carnegie and the like are remembered with a sort of fond awe because they left a lot of money to charitable endeavors and endowments, but the term "robber baron" came about for a reason. They weren't "luminous beings," they were far less constrained than rich people are today (Elon Musk could probably have you whacked if he really wanted to but not without risk; robber barons were nearly as powerful as medieval aristocracy) and the ratio of those who felt some sense of social responsibility versus amoral sociopaths was probably no different than now. Do you think there were no 19th century "pedo island" equivalents? Tales of nobles engaged in depravities with the local peasantry go back centuries.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of February 23, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
It's a religious title (basically, the chief Shia cleric) and the Ayatollah is chosen by a complicated process involving the Iranian Assembly and a Guardian Council. Basically the Shia version of the Vatican choosing a new Pope.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of February 23, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
The Constitution says "all people are equal before the law." Everyone knows that this is an aspiration, and that in reality, rich people, people with good lawyers, people who are in favor, have an easier time in any interaction with the law than people who are not.


You seem to be objecting to the idea that we should just make that tacit understanding explicit, and fair enough - poor people are supposed to be equal to rich people before the law, and it would be wrong to say "C'mon, we all know that's not how it works" and just accept the legal system dropping all pretense of fairness. We should at least try to uphold a sense of fairness.


On the other hand, it would be doing someone who's at a severe disadvantage a grave injustice to let them walk into a legal battle thinking that they actually are not at a disadvantage just because in some ideal world, they shouldn't be.


This is where it seems your argument regarding women's sports lies. You are, as other people are wont to say, trying to substitute a should for an is. People (feminists and female sports defenders, anyway) would really, really like for women to be physically equal to men, as athletically impressive as men, and for women's sports to be as exciting and admirable as men's sports.


But they're not. They're just not. And this isn't even society failing to living up to an ideal: it's biology! (I have actually met people--men and women--who die on the hill of "male-female differences are actually minimal if not nonexistent" and those people have never done martial arts or full contact sports with girls, or with boys if they are girls.) Women cannot compete with men. No, I don't care about your niche ultra-marathons or long-distance swimming or winter shooting events or whatever (where it usually turns out men actually outperform there too if you actually look at the numbers, just not by as large a margin).


Of course that doesn't mean you should tell your daughter that her athletic accomplishments are meaningless because "men will always be stronger and faster"! Of course that doesn't mean women shouldn't do sports and be celebrated for excelling in them! But- you are doing them a disservice to let them believe that because they are really good at women's sports, they can compete with men. Or that any disparity in results (and in accolades and awards) is because of sexism and not, well, biology. And that's where a lot of folks are now-- they somehow convince themselves that because women and men are morally equal, that women's and men's sports should be physically (and thus, monetarily) equal. And that if WNBA players don't make as much money as NBA players it's because of sexism, and if people cheer more for the men's hockey team than the women's hockey team it's because of sexism. And not because, well, sorry, but unless you're the father of a girl athlete (or a lesbian), you probably just don't find female sports all that interesting to watch compared to the peak performance male version.


Now, a more gracious president would have invited both the men's and women's USA hockey teams to the White House and done a nice coed photo-op and celebrated them together, and we'd all have pretended that yes, they are totally equally deserving and we celebrate them equally. Trump is not a gracious president. But then, the response from the same people who've been insisting we pretend that men and women are equal has also been exceedingly ungracious. The men's hockey team are "losers" because... the wrong people are cheering for them. And because (if we're being real) that iconic picture of a guy with a bloody mouth and a tooth knocked out, smiling in victory, is a big in-your-face reminder of the difference between male and female athleticism and what we valorize. Which makes certain people Very Uncomfortable.


Going back to your point, this whole pretense that men and women can (should) be physically equal is actively dangerous in the realm of self-defense, where too many women have been raised on Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Black Widow in the MCU and the like, and really believe their tae kwon do black belts mean they could take on a grown man who seriously means to do them harm.


In that context, yes, you should absolutely tell your daughters: "I love your enthusiasm, I celebrate your victories, I encourage your efforts- but you should never believe you are equal to a man."


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of February 23, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Well, you're not wrong that armed men unopposed by other armed men can render laws meaningless.


I'm not in favor of this method of conflict resolution.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of February 23, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
I don't have any illusion your mind is changeable.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of February 23, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					


Bari Weiss being installed at CBS New




That was pretty clearly a "fuck you" to CBS News (and the legacy media in general) and if she weren't Jewish you'd be laughing as hard as I did when it happened.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of February 23, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
We can't remove citizenship just because you "don't care." There has to be a legal justification, not just an emotional response.


If you get the revolutionary government you would like, I'm sure that will be on the table. But for now, you're stuck with the actual laws of the United States.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of February 23, 2026
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
That's a a whole bunch of inflammatory claims for which you have provided zero evidence.


You hate Jews, consider them incompatible with you, and would like to see pogroms. That does not mean you are knowledgeable enough to speak for all other "goyim."


You've been warned about this many times. I know Jew-hating is your shtick, and you do it without even being as interesting as SS. It's just out there, raw repulsive unfiltered vitriol. The thread is obviously meant to engender this kind of discourse but you're responsible for not even bothering to put a veneer of argumentation over your antipathy. I'm not banning you this time because there will be whining about "viewpoint suppression" and really, you differ from SS only in being less intelligent and less cunning. But you're getting an undeserved break here.