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“Don’t have sex unless you want to procreate” is just a really unpopular stance towards sex in the western world
It's unpopular to say to women.
Yeah, the male sex is famously averse to having sex for purposes other than child rearing
That's not the point. Saying it to women is unpopular in normie society in general, saying it to men isn't.
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More accurately, "don't have sex unless you can handle procreation if it happens". And yeah it's unpopular, but that doesn't make it incorrect. Being an adult means being prepared to handle the consequences of your actions.
The consequences are you get an abortion if you get an accidental pregnancy. We have the technology.
We also have the technology for nuclear bombs, but you don’t get to bomb civilians with nukes if their head of state pulls out of a trade deal.
What? I fail to see the correlation.
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"You have to be an adult and handle the consequences of your actions" and "an unborn child has rights" are two separate clauses and will have to be argued separately.
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That is not true. The potential consequence is "you are pregnant", getting an abortion is one answer to the consequence. It isn't the consequence itself.
Well how far down the ladder do you go on something like that. The consequence may be an expensive unwanted burden, a cherished child, an abortion, a miscarriage, nothing at all, and on and on. An abortion may be one consquence of sex.
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Too extreme an assumption. It could simply be "don't have sex unless probability of a child is acceptable to you."
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