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Speaking of, what do you think of BG3 female party members' looks? Am I the one who's crazy when I think the "they making em look like men for trans appeasement" crowd need to touch grass?
That crowd needs to touch grass. I would say that I don't personally find any of the female party members attractive (Shadowheart comes close but her haircut is so damn ugly), but that's just personal preference. I certainly don't think they look like men.
I find Lae'zel to be the most attractive woman in the history of videogames, but that may be down to personality.
Lae'zel has that wonderful teef-ling bit that is probably the most endearing character interaction in the whole game.
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I used to find Lae'zel the most grating woman in the history of videogames, but then I recruited Minthara. Can anybody tell me what is the drow attitude towards nudity? Does she feel humiliated when I don't return the clothes I looted from her in act one and she is forced to strut around the camp pussy out? I hope she does.
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I question your taste in women, lol (I know, taste is totally subjective). Lae'zel's entire personality is grumpy. Maybe if she got the sand out of her cloaca she would be more pleasant to have in the party. :/
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