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I was referring to unexpected door ringing at night, which is a whole different kettle of fish than daytime doorbell ringing or a pizza delivery or something like that.
As for why people don't get shot more often, it's just trigger discipline.
I have the same confusion about why depressed people don't swerve into traffic more.
Yet somehow. Humans manage to consistently not jump of cliffs. Blows my mind.
Until they see the first one jump.
I thought the [admittedly unfalsifiable, even though this rarely kills people in modern cars] explanation for that, and (albeit unintentionally) avoiding the contagion effect, was "fell asleep at the wheel".
Same effect probably applies to SIDS, come to think of it; creating a cultural assumption that these cases are acts of God probably keeps the natal murder rate down even though it leads to otherwise wasteful behaviors to try and avoid it.
I took a baby care class a few years ago. They plainly stated that most SIDS is people accidentally smothering their babies. Like falling asleep holding the baby and then turning a bit so the baby's face is pressed against something. They presented this as advice to not fall asleep holding your baby.
So acknowledging that it is sort of the parent's fault, but avoiding making it sound intentional. Which maybe helps avoid some social contagion.
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About 50% of people sometimes have the urge to jump when on a cliff edge. I agree that you would expect more people to actually jump.
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