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To everyone outside the subcontinent it is used as a generic racial slur against Indians and other subcontinentals. There is no distinction whatsoever between the ones who look and act a certain way or different castes/classes which makes your usage of the term risible. It’s like an Israeli from some small Jewish sect calling other Jewish sect kikes. “Ah those Neturei Karta KIKES are at it again! Not like us noble Breslov Hasidim! Don’t you know this slur has always referred to the BAD Jews?”
Yeah, I don't fully agree and jews themselves exist in distinct groups. Asheknazis are different from sephadrics.
A jew using the word kike and me using it are different things, ditto for pajeet. There is an underclass and it now has a collective name.
And all this happened because Sikhs, telugus and some others abused the living shit out of the migration system so bad that anyone sane would vote for remigration. The people whose antics got the word coined are a good chunk even within the west. This is a terrible thing because most people cannot differentiate between a hard working lawyer who migrated on his own from some city in Himachal vs a guy who got there through illicit means.
I should not be using the word as much, I think you're right now that I think about it.
I guess this is how American southerners feel about being called 'Yankees'.
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"...you fucking kikes are making us Jews look bad!" (c) a joke about Jews.
I've heard it also works for black people.
Indeed, there is a whole Chris Rock bit from the 90s where he talks about "there's black people, and there's niggas. And niggas have got to go". Anecdotally, I would say that matches my experience. My wife and her family really do not like the dumb-ass black people who make them look bad by association.
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It’s less effective as a joke when OP uses it unironically and when you consider he constantly mentions his caste and noble family connections in between (and sometimes even within) sad posts about his chronic unemployment and overall underachievement. He’s been doing this for years across various accounts with little self-awareness.
That's not an unfair view of things. I have had issues but I'm not crossing borders illegally, posting rape threats or staring at girls on the street. My descriptions here paint a far worse picture because I have a hard time appreciating anything decent in life.
Same goes for my employment issues, I chose to take time off to learn more things than my peers because I wouldn't have found the same line of employment where one hates showing up to office and knows nothing beyond leet code questions to be worthwhile, I did the equivalent of that in college. My sabbatical isn't ideal, but I did the right thing.
I should not use the word as muc,h though, slurs are not nice to use. Indians have a much worse image now than before, having slurs that for people of the subcontinent isn't good in such scenarios.
Also, I mentioned the faint previous ties to say that my analysis of the issue had some indirect inputs from people who were relevant at one point in time. The mentions of caste and other details exist to provide context for whatever is here. I don't go around driving with a "Brahmin" or equivalent sticker on my car. Castes are more or less dead in many ways beyond marriage. I do care about castes but that is a private matter.
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