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Culture War Roundup for the week of April 7, 2025

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If not, how is telling the contractor "The planning board is going to approve this project" a lie? Where is the falsehood? Where is the deciet?

First, because the planning board was not going to approve it at the time that was said. Second, and more importantly, you left out the very clear deceit I already cited: the developer is not in fact "just waiting on paperwork", he is engaged in manipulation to apply leverage to the planning board so that they will approve it.

Nobody said anything about a preexisting agreement.

It is very clearly implied, as otherwise the contractor would not go ahead.

They said an agreement would be made and that statement was correct. An agreement was made.

Yes, only because of the lies the developer told. That doesn't count as an accurate reporting of facts.

Your hypothetical scenario is not some clever bargaining flourish. It is a dirty lie that only a scumbag would engage in. I have pointed out the express and implied untruths that the developer says. If that isn't enough for you to call it a lie, then I lack the means to persuade you I guess.

Yes, it's all lies. Big mean Trump is fooling the innocent construction company and permit offices of NYC, all of whom are completely non-corrupt innocent idealists seeking only the best for everyone.

Back in reality, trump is a NYC real estate developer the same as all the others. Everyone involved knows the game. Trump didn't make the game this broken, NY politicians did. Trump has always been critical of them, and engaged in theatrics to expose them - e.g. writing a book, public clashes with Ed Koch over what later became Trump skating rink, etc. This is what led him to enter politics.

What would you have preferred he do? Be the only honest real estate developer and go bankrupt cause nothing gets built? (Similarly, I don't fault Soros for breaking the pound.)

What would you have preferred he do? Be the only honest real estate developer and go bankrupt cause nothing gets built?

Yes. "Everyone else does this too, it's how the game is" is not and has never been an excuse for immoral behavior. You are responsible for your conduct, no matter the circumstances you find yourself in.

What’s immoral about finding an end run around retarded awful laws and rules?

Lying, and not following the law, are both immoral without a sufficiently good reason. "I want to make money" isn't remotely good enough of a reason to lie and break the law.

‘Shit needs to get done and these kinds of adversarial boards aren’t doing what they’re supposed to’

That's closer. But if you think anyone circumventing the planning board process is actually doing it because they want to better society, and not because they want to profit, I have a bridge to sell you. A fine property in the middle of the Mojave desert.

What’s wrong with that? Circumventing the planning board is a good deed that deserves remuneration.

First, that is not a good deed. Fixing the regulations would be a good deed. Going around them is (somewhat) bad on its own merits.

Second, even if it were good, doing a good deed only carries merit if you're doing it for its own sake. Doing it to line your pockets means you don't have any moral credit for doing the good deed. And since this isn't a good deed to begin with, that means that we're now talking about doing a bad deed for selfish reasons, which compounds the badness.

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Perhaps, but the issue here isn't everyone else doing it, it is specifically the government and system that enacts and enforces the rules. If that system doesn't play by its own rules, then playing by those rules will only hurt you. You can not expect a system without enforced rules to produce any other result, because even if you play by the rules others will not.

We aren't talking about "does this system produce good outcomes", though. We are talking about "is it wrong for someone to do bad things because that's what the system incentivizes", which IMO it is.

What I'm saying though is that it isn't the people who are wrong, it's the system.

They are both wrong. The system is indeed set up poorly if it incentivizes people to circumvent it. But the people who circumvent the system are still wrong and deserve to be penalized for their actions in some way.

I agree, but it's like a slap vs a bullet. Your perspective of it seems highly susceptible to anarcho-tyranny. How do you repair a system that punishes you for trying to repair it? That's usually how this kind of thing starts - the unscrupulous don't give a shit about laws of course, but to get the scrupulous to ignore the law you need an already corrupted system.

How do you repair a system that punishes you for trying to repair it?

Nobody said anything about that. Trying to repair the system looks like pushing to get the laws improved so that the system works better. There's no reason to expect one would be punished for that.

Following the rules as-written as opposed to the rules as-enforced doesn't make you a paragon of morality; it makes you a chump.