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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 10, 2025

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As a general rule, actions which are immediately and directly harmful to others should be outlawed by the state. Actions which are generally anti-social but via some combination of indirectness, mildness, or fundamental to freedom or other universal human rights are not appropriate targets for the State's jurisdiction should be shamed and shunned but technically permitted. Actions which are neutral or have primarily personal impact (no externalities) should be tolerated. Actions which are positive but indirect should be socially praised and encouraged. Actions which are strongly positive, and have direct and objective measuremes should be subsidized, funded, or directly done by the State.

I see no reason why actions being done related to sex or done by women should be exceptions to this rule one way or another. Harmful actions like rape should be illegal. Anti-social actions like spreading STDS or having children outside of marriage should be shamed. Non-diseased non-procreative sex should be mostly ignored/tolerated. Having healthy happy relationships should be celebrated. Having reproductive and well-run families should be subsidized.

Half the problem is society and the media shaming housewives and celebrating career-obsession and promiscuity. If that just stopped a lot of people would have nicer relationships and families of their own volition, no compulsion required. Just stop digging the hole deeper.

I see no reason why actions being done related to sex or done by women should be exceptions to this rule one way or another.

Then you lack imagination and/or aren't starting from the correct initial conditions.

Let's assume that I am a woman (or more traditionally, let's assume I own one, so her financial situation is a direct extension of mine).

I depend on my beauty for my business, which is trading sex with men in exchange for their resources (either through an exclusive agreement usually called a "marriage", or more serially/casually).

When another woman distributes a naked picture of herself, or sells sex at a discount, it means I now receive less resources for the same amount of sex.

Therefore, pornography and fornication are immediately and directly harmful to me, so they should be outlawed by the state.

When another woman distributes a naked picture of herself, or sells sex at a discount, it means I now receive less resources for the same amount of sex.

That is indirect. This is the distinction I was trying to make by using that qualifier. Direct harm would be if someone literally steals money from you. Indirect harm is when someone does something that does not actually involve you, but has second order effects on you, such as economically competing with you and lowering your market value via supply and demand. The State doesn't/shouldn't make it illegal to open a gas station across the street from another gas station. The State doesn't/shouldn't make it illegal to open a soup kitchen and distribute free food next to a restaurant. The State doesn't/shouldn't make it illegal to distribute or sell sex for free or at a cheaper rate than someone else.

Let's assume that I am a woman, I depend on my beauty for my business, which is trading sex with men in exchange for their resources (either through an exclusive agreement usually called a "marriage", or more serially/casually).

When another woman distributes a naked picture of herself, or sells sex at a discount, it means I now receive less resources for the same amount of sex. Therefore, pornography and fornication are immediately and directly harmful to me, so they should be outlawed by the state.

It's never been remotely permissible as a theory of harm that "now I receive less resources for the same amount of X".

After Henry Ford, farriers received less for the same number of horseshoes. After Gutenberg, typesetters received far less for the same number of manuscripts copied.

The distinction between legitimate (and even laudatory) economic competition and unfair economic harm has never purely about raising or lower anyone's price or profit.

It's never been remotely permissible as a theory of harm that "now I receive less resources for the same amount of X".

Especially not in America where such people are typically deposited in the great unmarked grave of obsolescence historically.

Which is why we are collectively the richest nation in the history of nations.

It's never been remotely permissible as a theory of harm that "now I receive less resources for the same amount of X".

Unless you happen to come upon some political power. In fact, that is what it is for.

The distinction between legitimate (and even laudatory) economic competition and unfair economic harm has never purely about raising or lower anyone's price or profit.

Why? There is no fairness beyond a state of affairs which maximally advantages you and your immediate socioeconomic interests and believing in a concept of fairness outside of that is only useful insofar as it rewards you more than it does the other guy.

Parasitism is a valid evolutionary strategy.

Not sure if you're just not from a WEIRD country and this is foreign to your thinking, but it's in all our socioeconomic interests to impose rules of fair competition. And so we do so -- imperfectly as all human structures.

We all benefit from the automobile even if it puts the farrier out of business. Society doesn't let him block the car just because "it rewards the other guy more than him".

...it means I now receive less resources for the same amount...

...and therefore, anything outside of my monopoly is an infringement on my rights, and should be banned.


I'm mostly with MathWizard here. The treatment of sex violates those general rules. Unlike him, I can see a few reasons why they should be an exception, but I'm still not sure if they're sufficient reasons.