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Homosexuals, immigrants, and disabled are very fond of straight white men and fiercely protect them when they're persecuted or murdered.
I dunno, I think my gay friends would stand up for me.
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I suppose if you're so straight and white that you can't imagine ever being on the same side of history as homosexuals, immigrants and disabled, you have nothing to worry about and can continue to sneer at the lower castes. Although, as I suspect you know, there's always such a thing as not white enough.
Nothing in the linked article about not being white enough, only not being German / Aryan enough or being too Slavic.
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What a bingo card answer. I'm saying that to expect them to "speak for me" is naive to the point of retardation, at best they will cheer when it's my turn, at worst they will be the ones who are coming for me.
Do you have no friends among "Them"? If you do, do you expect all of them to drop you at some point? If you don't, why would you expect anyone to speak for you any more than you speak for them?
No such friends; and I have no expectation of my enemies speaking for me, especially after their words and actions have demonstrated the reverse. It's the author of that shitty manipulative "poem" who says that we should have such an expectation for some reason.
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You have no idea what it's been like for us the past 8 years, do you?
I have some. I've read themotte, as you can guess. The mindset of "what skin off the back of upstanding citizens is it to just let them die" does not become less alien to me. I don't like the jingoist boomers of my country either, but I hardly dream of rounding them up behind the shed or draining their towns of resources until they drink themselves to death.
There are two classes that I can imagine an average and sane citizen to overlook and mentally discount in this manner, which is the habitual violent criminals and those who are so dysfunctional that they barely intersect with regular society or economy (homeless, heavy drug users, mentally disabled). Not those who like it up the ass.
I have understood the sentence to be more akin to "cease supporting their self a destructive lifestyle".
Those who like it up the ass seem to have a rather entitled attitude regarding the provision of drugs for largely self-inflicted diseases. I understand how there's been a lot of propaganda about how society supposedly failed them by not providing them with a cure in the past, but I think discounting them is qualitatively the same as the case of addicts.
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