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I saw a breakdown on this where they showed some pictures of women and asked men what they preferred. The sizes were something like this:
DD cup was the most popular size, followed by the super big unnatural size.
And that's why the most popular size for women who get implants is 300-400 mL per breast – about the size of a softball. Ouch.
As you can imagine, it's a class thing, with lower class men preferring the largest breasts.
[citation needeed] It is quite hard to persuade women to get breast implants if they're not of the right sort. Between women wanting to avoid being hated on by other women, that most women are more persuasive than men, there is probably a lot of unfulfilled preferences out there.
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But do lower class men actually like larger breasts more than upper class men, or are upper class men just more sensitive to appearing vulgar and crass and temper/moderate their responses? What do you think of the boobs vs butts phenomenon where the map of global preferences looks suspiciously like an IQ map? And Jewish women being known for their breasts?
Ofc people falsify their stated preferences to enhance their social standing.
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The ideal forms change with time, in the 90s it was really slender people generally, our times appreciate someone who has above average levels of muscle mass and standout secondary sexual characteristics. I personally always leaned towards the second and never understood the appeal of androgynous, skinny, low muscle mass body types.
The Greeks got both the male and female form right. Youthful heracles is my reference point personally and aphrodite might have been one had I been a girl.
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What if causation is structured differently? Like, a preexisting proclivity for temperance leading to (1) preference for smaller breasts and (2) better life outcomes.
Does the lower class thing hold up in places where there is no correlation between class and obesity rates? Most people like looks that they grew up with.
"Those who disagree are just falsifying preferences" is a too emotionally satisfying theory to not be suspect. Also, even if it is shaped by social pressure, in what sense is a sufficiently internalised preference less valid? Nobody likes IPAs or jazz in a state of nature, either.
I would guess that IQ correlates positively with a lot of sexual preferences that are not reproductively advantageous. Furries are known to be something like the Jews of IT, too.
I think the only limiting factor on preference for breast size is once they become so large they're a visible deformity (at which point you get into inflation fetish territory- aka the DeviantArt school of sexual attraction). Of course, that also means having breasts that large is selected against.
I think that pushes the average size preference up, not down, for 'she looks like a little girl that means ur a pedo hahah also die' reasons.
In my experience I only really feel this dynamic online. IRL I wouldn't feel embarrassed to introduce my parents to a gf with A cups, introducing my parents to my H cup gf would feel shameful.
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This article spends several thousand words arguing "Yes".
You always link the most based articles
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I haven't really heard this before outside of "khazar milkers"-posting.
Really? My friend (now a Republican state senator lol) and I were joking about "jewbs" all the time in high school in 2006. Granted about half the girls in our school were Jewish so we may have been in an usual situation...
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