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I advocate for having trans women use waxing salons that service minority populations who don’t buy into all that. Just to see what happens. Prisons I don’t think anyone cares, but sports is probably going to solve itself eventually.
A minority of women seem pretty angry about other women getting raped in prison by male sex offenders who have had a revelation that they're actually female..
I'm pretty angry about it too, for the record.
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I think that was a reference to Jessica Yaniv, who tried to get scrotum waxing from estheticians that sold labia (etc.) waxing services. She launched a human rights complaint against the (independent, immigrant) people who denied her, claiming that they offered female genital waxing, and therefore were discriminating by not waxing her female genitals.
She lost the case, eventually.
He was simultaneously - too early, hitting another group in the progressive stack and too unsympathetic (read weird/non-passing/masculine aggressive). If memory serves he did get to use the full weight and support of whatever Canada's Human Rights Division is called and they independent business had to defend themselves.
I'm curious how that case would go now?
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It's worth mentioning that Yaniv lost that case only because of his blatant racism against Asian immigrants, not because the court took a principled position supporting the right of female workers to refuse service to males.
(If the court has to dedicate four pages of the conclusion to the “racial animus” of the plaintiff, that's usually not a good sign.)
This fragment sums up the position of the court:
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