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It was briefly mentioned in the 2020 democratic primaries that most trans murders are sex workers, then I believe it got memory holed when it was revealed the murderers were largely homophobic black clients. It was useful to highlight trans black sex workers being murdered, then the murderers turned out to not be white men and the news was buried.
I would gently posit that the murder rate for trans is somewhat obscured by the number of trans people being absolutely impossible to discern. Self ID and no accountability means this is a mutable category with depressed tomboys and cross dressing AGPs in the same category.
There are a statistically significant number of rap songs from the eighties and nineties which talk about hooking up with a girl who turns out to be a guy. This phenomenon was mentioned on Cracked back in the day.
Probably most famously in DMX's "Where the Hood at" which straight up talks about murdering gay and trans black men:
Last I heard, y'all niggas was havin' sex (uh) with the same sex (woo) I show no love (yeah) to homo thugs (nah) Empty out, reload, and throw more slugs (boom) How you gonna explain fuckin' a man? Even if we squash the beef, I ain't touchin' your hand (aight?) I don't fuck with chumps (yeah) For those that been to jail, that's the cat with the Kool-Aid on his lips and pumps (uh)
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Sure, but even if the trans murder rate was double what we currently believe it to be (i.e. for every trans person who got murdered and who was correctly identified as such by the police, there was one additional murder victim who was inaccurately characterised as cisgender), the trans murder rate would still be lower than the cis male murder rate. Check my maths.
Also, if a male person gets murdered and that person dressed in a conventionally male fashion, never sought treatment for gender dysphoria, never requested that anyone address them using a female name or pronouns, and gave no outward indication of being anything other than a cis man - I find it hard to understand how one could posit that such a murder was motivated by transphobia on the part of the perpetrator.
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Common Coulter’s Law W.
See also #StopAsianHate in the US or supposed disappearing indigenous women in Canada.
An occasional but recurring source of seethe and controversy in spaces like Reddit is to what extent Persons of Sex Work are in the right to deny their services to black men.
That was particularly farcical. It's a shame that most satirists in the US are left-wing:
https://www.nbcphiladelphia.com/news/national-international/black-and-asian-americans-stand-together-against-hate-crimes/2780762/
"We should be struggling against the common enemy!"
"... The Judean People's Front?!"
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Most sex workers are actually somewhat racist and unpleasant because they tend to be bad with money and keep trying to squeeze regulars. Its quite common for escorts to state preferences openly, and it is unacceptable to normies that said preferences tend to be no blacks/arabs/indians, for varying reasons stemming largely from fraud and stealthing. European freelancers on backpage used to complain about those clients constantly, and then I think it got memory holed.
In the end normies really wish their chosen pets would all get along with each other, and can't be bothered to actually talk to blacks or muslims to see what they think of lgbt or women. Maintaining the fiction is the responsibility of reality, and denying the lived experience of sex workers is more acceptable than any notion of skin color being indicative of threat. We still don't see any liberal reckoning about Pulse nightclub or Rotherham, and at this point the aggressors know they have a ripe and defenseless population rich for the taking.
So there was this time a long time ago when I was sort of interested in Sam Harris’ podcast and kept checking it out. One time he had Bill Maher on as a guest rather predictably, who, to his credit, wasn’t holding back. One argument he made about liberal/centrist normies is that one reason why talking points on the threat of Islamism and other negative consequences of Muslim immigration don’t resonate with them at all is that usually the only Muslims the typical suburban middle-class liberal White woman ever interacts with are those two funny and exotic Arab guys at the office that she’s sympathetic to already. That’s the only point of reference she has. Needless to say, those two swarthy guys know the score and will make sure never to offend her pro-gay/trans sensibilities. (Also, we know that ‘multiculturalism’ to this White demographic doesn’t usually mean more than funny clothes, exotic restaurants and that one coffee shop your female coworkers will tell you about.)
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Cultural confusion can also be a factor. Remember a case in Australia where a Transwoman was assaulted by a Tinder hookup, but it turned out the Tinder hookup had only been in the country from his native Pakistan for a couple weeks and seemingly had no cultural awareness of Trans being a thing/how to pick up on it from the profile.
I don’t recall it off the top of my head, but such a case could also be described as lack of cultural antibodies or lack of genre savviness.
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