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Do you live in a large city? This is the only thing I can think of that would prompt this level of annoyance.
I own guns, I consider myself very pro second amendment, I don't know or honestly care that much about how difficult it is to get a gun in a city. My solution to them having shitty gun laws is to not go there. I'm also not in the habit of picking political fights for other people.
I'd love it if you explained to my wife that me owning guns is actually an intellectual pursuit. Right now she is under the mistaken impression that I'm just a big boy with disposable income and I'm buying big boy toys.
I live in suburban New Jersey.
The left wasn't satisfied to have gay marriage only in their strongholds. They weren't even satisfied when there was a single clerk holding out. And they got their way, because Supreme Court decisions for the left count. Conservatives, on the other hand, have left prospective gun owners and those who wish to carry out in the cold everywhere but their own strongholds. They got a Supreme Court decision or three, but they don't count for spit in the real world; it turns out that according to the appeals courts, every restriction on guns an anti-gun jurisdiction engages in is OK according to Bruen. And rather than take those cases and reverse them, the Supreme Court took a case from the Fifth Circuit where a Federal gun restriction was ruled against -- presumably to decide that indeed, a simple restraining order of the sort handed out like candy by judges is sufficient to revoke someone's gun rights.
Well yeah, that is a shit state to be in for guns.
Maybe try and live in one of the non gray areas: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Second_Amendment_sanctuary
And yet conservatives call it victory.
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A themotte.org meetup in your backyard, for the purpose of convincing your wife that owning guns makes your family very intellectual and sophisticated sounds like a worthy endeavor.
Haha, that would probably have the opposite of the intended effect. I'd not be opposed to a meetup in northern virginia if anyone is around though.
I'd mostly want to do it for the look on her face. "I'm sorry, you flew in from WHERE for all this?", but to be honest I don't know if I could make it. This shit was easier when I was in my 20's.
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