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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 13, 2023

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Shoe has never been ideologically committed, even when she was larping as an atheist with her then atheist boyfriend. I know this might be sexist but you'll notice women tend to adopt the politics of their boyfriends instead of picking their boyfriends based on ideology.

I have noticed this to be true about socially conservative women, yes.

I haven’t noticed that. Plenty if men go to church/go vegetarian/ etc because of the girl they’re now dating.

Does this mean I can date a leftist woman and "fix" her?

No. You are responding to an inaccurate and sexist observation.

I can't find a reference to it, but I once heard this Irish fairy tale about a dude that got abducted by the faeries. His gf / fiancée / wife wanted to get him back, so some wisewoman / witch / etc., told her she has to wait until Halloween or thereabouts when the faeries have their parade, grab her man, and hold on to him no matter what. That's what she did, and as she grabbed him, the guy started changing into scary/dangerous things - a wolf, a giant snake, perhaps even a goddamn dragon at some point, but I may be filling in some details with my imagination - but she loved him so much that she could hold on to him, no matter how terrifying the experience. The faerie parade passed, and he was back to his normal self.

All this to say: you can, but you're in for a ride.

The story is called Tam Lin.

Sweet! I was worried I was imagining (or badly misattributing) the whole thing for a second.

This is a common meme, but if it was actually true I am not sure that the discrepancy in voting patterns between US men and women would be as large as it is.

Have you bothered to look at voting patterns of single vs married women?

Good point, though this might be partly explained by how voting patterns correlate with age and also by how likely women of different political views are to get married, as opposed to how likely women who are married tend to get certain political views.

Relevant, but not particularly probative. A continually growing share of increasingly older women have never married.

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