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How do you get bullied into changing a name for a bird. It's bloody bird watching. What kind of pansies run this org? Just tell the miscreants to pound sand. Is this just a case of ideological capture?
I mean, it’s bird watching. I associate this hobby with innoffensive old people who stayed Episcopalian after it started using gay pride vestments, read the New York Times, and retired from their teaching job a few years ago thinking they should move to be with their grandkids but just don’t think it’s the right time.
I’m surprised it took them this long to give in to even the most ridiculous demand from work activists.
This is a disturbingly precise description of one of the bird watching hobbyists I know. Makes you wonder.
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The Venn diagram overlap of the sort of people who administrate hobby groups and the sort of people who bird watch is not your most testosterone-fueled set.
Is this a claim that prominent birders are mostly women, or mostly low-T men? In the UK, obscure geeky hobbies like birding are generally assumed to be light on both actual XX women and ManlyMenTM.
I would guess there are plenty of manly men who bird watch, but they are mostly not the ones who sit on the committees and run for president.
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If it was that easy, the ideological capture would not have gone through literally everywhere and we would not have had the great awokening. Agreeing to say no, together, is a hard collective action problem, since saying no alone is a fast path to cancellation.
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