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Except when it works, which it does more than never. Which is what I assume fuckduck is getting at with the physical move - grabbing her and pulling her into a kiss has a better chance of working than awkwardly and earnestly try to express himself, because sexual dynamics are crazy.
If asking a classmate to fuck is a bad idea, I think it should be pretty obvious that just grabbing her and trying to kiss her is an even worse one.
If you are the sort of guy who can actually get away with that, you are not the socially awkward OP.
I've done this and gotten away with it and am very socially awkward. The context was different though because it was at a party. I've also had a girl do it to me in even more dramatic fashion.
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Agreed, but the socially awkward op is too socially awkward to know that. That's where the tragedy lies imo.
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Obvious and wrong. If she's actually attracted to you, the former is much worse than the latter, usually. Even if you don't get away with it, she'll likely be much less upset.
I'm surprised that there's a disagreement here; it seems obvious that you're right here, in that the kiss would be considered more overly aggressive/thirsty than creepy, and have less social censure placed on it. I'd expect even Reddit to have a more sympathetic response if the situation involved a kiss instead of the invitation.
At the same time, it seems equally obvious to me that in an ideal world an unwanted kiss should be considered much worse than an unwanted invitation to fuck. Words are words and can't violate anything, while physical actions can violate actual boundaries.
I think reddit might not, but that's because it's a super storm of purity spirals.
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I'd be curious to know which approach in the workplace is more likely to get you fired: a spergy request for sum fuk or an unwanted kiss at a happy hour. I'd speculate that even there the kiss would be better received, though the guy would be an idiot either way.
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