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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 13, 2023

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I hardly think asking you clarifying questions goes agianst the rules of this forum. As I said I have not been on Reddit for years. I am not a "redditor".

Am I clever? Or did I simply ask you to use plain language as is asked in the guidelines?

I used Mien Kamph as an end member on a scale on a conversation about your obtuse comment with someone who os not you. I never accused you directly of being a nazi but simply pointed out the fact that your language when simplified is closer to Mien Kamph than Bambi. Your advocation for racial segragation proves I am right. But I had to "trick" you in saying so. I am playing fair. I let you say the bad things. I just say you are loved and heard. I hear you bro.

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Your advocation for racial segragation proves I am right.

Have you even read «Mien Kamph»?

But I had to "trick" you in saying so. I am playing fair. I let you say the bad things.

Are you under the impression that I've been trying to hide anything, or that anything I've said is bad? Can you argue this without simply claiming that racial segregation is far from Bambi?

You seem to be losing control of your extremities, «bro». I suggest you don't post while inebriated.

This was a fun subthread. Thanks for humoring the troll, and I appreciate the links and arguments.

[Pokes with stick]...do something....

Was i too forward? How old are you? Do you shave your balls? Do you have balls? I like shaved balls. Want to squeeze the cum out of them. Do I make you feel uncomfortable? I'm just asking questions.

Sometimes being heard seems harder than listening but usually if you listen you will reallize you are being heard.

I am trying to hear you but all I hear is poorly disguised misdirected anger. Tell me how I am wrong. I hear you bro.

This is really obnoxious and if @cjet79 hadn't already banned you, I would for this comment. Do not come back and post like this.

Holy cow. I really don't have to say anything at all do I? What questions do you think I should ask instead...you know...for clarity?

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Why are you doing this weird "oh my god look at THIS RACIST" song-and-dance here? For whom are you performing?