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Definitely seems possible that it's a lie to troll or dodge hate crime charges. But it is interesting seeing people squirm in the hot seat on this question. If mere identification is sufficient, then how can you question this person? If you've previously held a standard that there was no legitimate gatekeeping, and that anything short of enthusiastic affirmation was transphobic bigotry, do you bite that bullet or flip-flop? If you flip, your enemies will use it against you forever. And if you bite the bullet, they'll use that against you forever too!
Very much a situation that highlights the contradictions.
I don't think this question is as squirm-inducing as you think. How would you respond to this?:
"What is a woman?" is exactly the kind of thing that ought to make people squirm, and maybe it makes normies / clueless / true believers squirm, but I see a ton of, "that's just a political gotcha question, you're obviously a right wing troll to ask it!"
The response to the trap is "no, it's your opinions that let me score points, I'm just trying to expose them."
The response probably won't work since anyone who merits the response probably isn't logical. But it's the correct answer. Showing that someone's opinions lead to one of two things, both bad, isn't a "gotcha", it's reasoning.
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That's still squirming. It's the crying soyjack with the smug mask on. It's like someone went "what are you, some sort of commie?" if you asked them what time it is.
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When facing 5 premeditated murder charges how much worse does it get with a hate crime charge?
Much worse to spend that sentence in a men's prison than in a women's prison, I assume.
But he's not claiming to be full-on trans.
Yet
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i still think mere identification is sufficient. it’s more of a subjective disposition than anything, so if he says he’s nonbinary i’ll take him at his word. not like i have any way of corroborating it beyond that.
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I've never known these people to actually think that way. Because there is no thinking occurring. So there is no contradiction to be noticed. You are not supposed to question how people identify when it's to their advantage to not have it questioned. And then it's "obvious" evil right wingers are faking it when it's to their advantage to believe that. You will see no one of any consequence or influence modify their perspective on the supremacy of self identification what so ever. They're already letting men into
all you can rape buffetswomen's prison if they "self identify". To say nothing of all the lesser ways they've marginalized and disenfranchised women for the sake of the trans identity. Why would some trollish behavior from a mass shooter change any minds in how our society is being dismantled?More options
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