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List of alleged abusers in the SBC
Wikipedia's page for SBC sex abuse
Jehovah's Witnesses
Virginia Beach megachurch Pastor who had this lovely adventure:
Study finds that 1/250 Australians report being sexually abused by Clergy during their childhood
I won't bother recounting the history of the Catholic church scandals, everyone knows them and honestly I think they get overrated relative to what you see at every other organization.
Have you considered that you're fleeing the frying pan of fucking machines for the fire of fucking machines?
I've increasingly become blackpilled on the question of pedophilia. It seems like there doesn't exist an organization that doesn't have a child sex abuse problem.
Yes, in the sense that pedophiles commonly have the big-brained idea to get a job working with kids.
Child actors are commonly sexually abused by Hollywood executives. I don't think that means the typical Hollywood producer is a pedophile. I think it means the subset of Hollywood producers who happen to be pedophiles make sure to work with child actors.
It's like that with every organization. I don't think the average youth pastor is fucking the kids. But if a pedophile happened to be a member of that church, he might get the clever idea to volunteer to be youth pastor.
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Sure there are. They're just the organizations that don't interact with children.
...That doesn't seem better.
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