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Culture War Roundup for the week of April 21, 2025

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You know, I saw headlines about a Karmelo case, and assumed it was some annoying rapper. Because what parent would name their kid after a perpetually underachieving, inefficient, annoying failure of an NBA star?

Fundraising aside, this is why it’s notable? He’s a sports guy?

No, Carmelo Anthony was a star NBA player in the oughts, who was pretty famous and hyped but more or less the prototype of a sneaky-bad inefficient player. He was extremely talented and scored a lot of points, but he took too many shots and never got a lot of assists, was a notoriously bad teammate and ball hog, etc.

I'm just saying this never happens to a kid named Tim Duncan.

I had assumed the headlines were about some annoying rapper and never read the story, because I didn't really care much.

Dude's 17 which means he was born/name selected in 2008 when Carmelo Anthony was more exciting up-and-comer than his full legacy playing out.

Dude's 17 which means he was born/name selected in 2008

God damn it I'm old.

Loving Carmelo Anthony is itself mild evidence towards stupidity, like driving a Nissan or wearing a TAPOUT t shirt.

I get that but like I'd give more of a pass to a kid called Zion Williamson born the year he got drafted than I'd give to one born the year of Zion's retirement.