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Ah, so it was in the context of an accident. I think that sentiment is a lot more defensible than if we were talking about terrorism and other premeditated crime (as it sounded like from the context) - there doesn't seem to be any particular reason to assume that immigrants would cause fatal car accidents at a higher rate.
Yeah could be (and that dad is a cuck). If immigrants don’t obey safety laws at the same rate, can’t read signage, or come from a culture that is just bad at driving, then they easily could increase the odds of fatal accidents.
Notably Springfield residents were noting these issues prior to the incident.
If your kid got run over by a young man (who have the highest odds of causing fatal accidents) and this was picked up by misandrist feminists, who would proceed to milk the hell out of it to fuel a campaign to raise the minimum driving age for men to 25, would periodically contact you to appear on their campaign trail, and called you a "cuck" if it turned out you were uninterested in their agenda, can you not imagine wishing that your kid had been run over by an old woman instead? Does that make you a "cuck"?
(On that matter, we don't even need to use driving as an example. Men commit the vast majority of violent crime. Are relatives of victims who are not on board with feminism cucks?)
...it would, in fact, be the height of cuckoldry to make a comment like "I wish my kid got run over by a woman".
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If young men invaded your small town destroying its social fabric and causing a bunch of issues, then I think it’s reasonable to call you a cuck if you are against doing something about the invasion.
So it's largely independent of the accident involving his family, and you figure the dad is already a "cuck" just because he is not against immigration?
You seem to have come back to a scenario that conveniently only fits your use of the term, too. To be a "cuck", do you specifically have to refuse acting against something that looks like an invasion?
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