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PaperclipPerfector  8d ago (text post)   2572 thread views

Friday Fun Thread for February 14, 2025

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Happy Valentine's Day everyone. Any of you folks have a spicy date for this weekend? Hoping to live vicariously through you all here - my wife and I have a newborn so we have put the romance on pause for a minute.

My wife and I walked to a nearby seafood izakaya and were marveling at how good the food was and what a diamond in the rough the place was. After a few plates, I took out my phone and opened my photos to reminisce about what we did last year, only to discover that we had spent Valentine's Day 2024 at the very same restaurant last year. We had completely forgotten, likely due to our most recent baby arriving only about a month later and bringing the usual flood of joy, exhaustion, and amnesia. So I suppose what I'm saying is -- whatever y'all do this year, take pictures, lol. And congrats on the baby!

Lol my sister and her husband were like that when they had their second kid. I lived with them at the time and one night they came to me very excited, because they had just watched The Endless and they just knew I was going to love it! I smiled at my sister and gave her a hug and explained that yes I did love it, which is why I gave it to them to watch three months ago.

I think it means you have your priorities straight.

Congrats on the newborn, and enjoy this time! You'll miss it.

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