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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 10, 2025

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I am not ignorant of your definition. I reject it.

The term you are looking for is "trans-identified male."

No, I was not looking for that term. I do not use that term, because I do not want to use that term, because I do not agree with the assumptions necessary for it to make sense.

I thought that was clear when I accused goodguy of smuggling in assumptions. This was the very assumption I objected to in the first place, and simply repeating it does nothing to change my objection.

Your terms don't make sense, though. You're just using words in an idiosyncratic way because you think you're putting some extra fire into them, but you will actually fail to communicate what you're talking about.

Man is the noun, which I think is well defined.

Trans is the adjective, which describes the man.

It makes perfect sense.

I tend towards "ex-man" and "ex-woman" for this, for 3 reasons:

  • Doesn't allow useful information about that person to be lost
  • Is indicative of how the person in question feels about having been in that category (and suggests parting on bad terms; contrast 'former'), while at the same time, doesn't force me to validate any further Special Snowflakery
  • Is a comic book reference, and that series tends to be at the very least inspiration for these kinds of people (for obvious reasons)

To be fair, this is more intuitive. The world is mad, you are sane.

So you call women who identify as men trans women, and you call men who identify as women trans men?

Okay, you do you, but most people will think you mean the opposite of what you're saying.