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Maybe I'm conservative now but this reminds me of the hit piece on Huberman the other day for having a harem of girlfriends all a secret from each other. My takeaway from that was even the most high status males, or especially high status males, can't make poly work and have to lie about what they want.
I'm not saying Gaiman is not a dirtbag or sex criminal. But I think I am agreeing that it's probably impossible to be a gigantic kinky man slut if you are Gaiman without being accused of being a dirtbag or sex criminal.
This is not a neat comparison, some of Gaiman's related sex practices seem pretty fucked up (like the thing with his kid in the room) but I think the article exists even in the universes where that stuff didn't allegedly happen.
I don't think there exists a human being who will come out clean in a motivated hit piece by an ex lover. We have no evidence except the word of aggrieved ex lovers that any of this happened.
Not that I have any opinion whether it did or didn't, but no one else does either.
-- William Congreve
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I'm on good terms with exactly zero of my exes and I'm trying to imagine what it would be like if I had 10x as many ex-lovers, we were poly, I did BDSM and CNC with them, and I was famous. Ugh.
I mean I'm on great terms with most exes, but few of them would hold up under motivated cross examination by a reporter trying to get a story and loaded for bear.
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