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Culture War Roundup for the week of January 13, 2025

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You’re saying the average man wants a woman to lick her own shit off his dick after anal, eat her own vomit after oral, fuck his mistress in front of his 5 year old son? Go ahead, disappoint me.

Maybe—or maybe not—those three acts in particular (especially the last), but it’s fairly common that men enjoy attractive women doing gross, degrading acts for them and fairly common that women enjoy doing gross, degrading acts for men they find attractive. And the more attractive she finds the man at the time, the grosser and more degrading the acts a woman is eager and willing to do.

For example, in my experience, the probability that a chick is down to do ATM for you given that you're already fucking her in the ass is pretty high, possibly verging on 1. That is, P(ATM | Anal) > 1 – epsilon >> 0. If you pull your cock out from her ass and wave it in front of her face, in the heat of the moment she’ll just start sucking it as if you just pulled it out of her puss. And sometimes it’s not Just the Smellz, so sometimes she’ll be eating a little bit of her own shit. I can’t recall a girl ever having actually refused ATM: when ATM didn’t occur after anal, it was when I was young(er) and still under the impression that there was no way an otherwise wholesome-seeming girl would do ATM, so didn’t attempt it. Oh, to be young(er) and naive again.

While perhaps less gross than vomit or shit, if not within the context of sex acts, women would likely find the taste and texture of semen, puss juice, or bile to be off-putting, to say the least. Yet facials, cum-in-mouth, puss-to-mouth, and sloppy deepthroats are pretty common nowadays, and many women rather enjoy them in the heat of the moment. It’s merely a difference of social acceptability and degree of grossness, not kind.

I didn’t feel like reading about Gaiman’s exploits (again), but among those three acts per se, the only despicable one I find is the fucking in front of his son. If a chick is down to eat her own shit off a guy’s cock, or eat her own vomit for his viewing pleasure if he’s into that, bon appetit for her and Slay, King for him. I wtf and turtle-up at the thought of fucking in front of one’s own child.

I wtf and turtle-up at the thought of fucking in front of one’s own child.

Which is interesting!

While it's obviously taboo today (and for good reason in my mind), that's probably the one most present historically since large families and a lack of space meant that parents had to make do with little boundary from their kids.

Oh, come on; generalize a little. He obviously means that the average man wishes he had an endless parade of young women eager to have sex with him and willing to do whatever gross, perverted kink he had. Which, you know, is obviously true.

Where have I said that?

edit: what @Blueberry said, the dark corners of my psyche are my own

You said you were envious of Gaiman, who allegedly did all of these things. It seems a reasonable inference.

I do not consider myself average at all.

I don't know what that has to do with my comment.

The accusation was “You’re saying the average man wants …” to which orthoxerox clarifies now to you, that he never tried to speak for the average man, but only for himself.

Ah.

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