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No mention of Bacha Barzai?
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Far be it from me to imply that there isn't a certain amount of logic here. Fighting child-rape is part of the founding myth of the Taliban, so obviously if we're fighting the Taliban child-rapists are natural allies. The same logic applies to drug dealers, clearly, which was why we spent twenty years just never quite getting around to any serious effort to crimp opium production, something the Taliban was also quite good at, and why Afghanistan had four times more land being used to cultivate poppies at the end of the war as it had at the start.
...where's Charles James Napier when you need him?
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A friend of a friend was a rather naive female Air Force engineer. Her CIA handler had to literally pull her away from the group of Afghan army men she was talking to because ‘if you get in that car they will gangrape you’. And these were allies.
Why she had a CIA handler I don’t know but presumably because of her distressing propensity to become a front page news story.
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I mean, say what you will about the US elite, they’re pretty good at pretending CSA of boys is normal and acceptable behavior. No doubt the official story was that the boys were dancers or some such(does anyone doubt what dancers giving private performances in quarters actually are) fulfilling the diversity of gender roles in rural Afghanistan.
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What I find interesting about this is that it wasn't exactly quiet at the time: The Kite Runner was a pretty popular book at the time and featured the practice pretty prominently, albeit set at a time other than the US occupation.
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