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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 23, 2024

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From what I've read on how people talked about sex "normally", outside of puritan societies and polite company, they were quite vulgar. They didn't have porn, true.

I suppose there's a case you could make that delicacy around sex is an affectation of the middle (and upper?) class(es?), and the lower classes/peasants/proles have always been quite vulgar? It's certainly the sort of thing that could be true, though I'd like a bit more of a survey before I conclude that it is.

The peasants are traditionally (and definitionally) vulgar, but it's the upper classes who used to seriously talk about "breeding" with respect to humans.

and the lower classes/peasants/proles have always been quite vulgar?

That's what "vulgar" means.

(You're saying that the lower classes/peasants/proles have always [acted in the character and spoken language in the manner of the lower classes/peasants/proles]).

Also, "they didn't have porn"? lol, lmao even; this shit was everywhere, a consequence of the printing press.

No, that's the etymological origin of 'vulgar'. The meaning of a word is not reducible to its etymology. That's called the etymological fallacy.

Have lower or peasant classes been consistently crude, blunt, or offensive in the way they talk about sex, relatively to middle or upper classes? It would not surprise me - if nothing else I think the lower class, almost definitionally, does not speak in the way the upper class considers polite - but it would be nice to have actual data to go on.