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If anything, this argument makes me think differently about speakers-on-the-train guy. I had always assumed that it was a dominance display, but I suppose it entirely possible that they're just actually baffled that anyone would find it offensive. If I take my dog out to a park or a bar with a patio, I do not gain any flexing dominance pleasure and experience nothing but an eyeroll at people that are so deeply affronted by it. I'll grant that there are places that I don't think people should have dogs, but even there, I'm more annoyed by people that are histrionically frightened of dogs than I am by the guy that probably shouldn't have brought his dog into the convenient store.
Except pit bulls, of course. I despise pit bulls.
Obviously "histrionically" is doing a lot of work here, but I've come to realize that people's experience with dogs are very different. I have a friend whose phobia of dogs seemed strange to me, but she's from a more rural background, and over there dogs can form packs that are actually quite vicious, my hypoallergenic, and honestly kinda' lazy, mini-schnauzers are not representative of what dogs can be.
Yeah. I was raised in a family with pleasant pet dogs and I'm broadly pro-dog, but having been to parts of the world where dogs are either working animals or mangy strays I can understand why there's an aversion.
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Pit bulls are not dogs for inexperienced owners. There are people who can have pit bulls successfully- they discipline them, exercise them, follow common-sense guidance like feeding them in a bowl and not by hand, etc. Disproportionately these people do not want pits unless they have some practical need for them.
Even magnificently well trained pit bulls owned by responsible (pit ownership aside) dog owners who have experience with strong dogs - rottweilers, GSDs, etc - are liable to suddenly snap after years of being a loveable companion and maul a toddler or grandma to death, slaughter the other household pets like a wolf etc.
Were these pits raised by experienced and responsible owners from puppyhood? Almost every case of 'model dog owner suddenly mauled by pit', IIRC, was one where the dog had been raised in a dog fighting ring and obtained from a shelter(beasts should've been old yeller'd).
Pit bulls, like certain other breeds(and pits are not the worst offender here), are strong willed dogs and often fierce about what they want, with a potential for aggression. This renders them unsuitable for the vast majority of dog owners. There should be far fewer of them. But generally the 'he just suddenly snapped' narrative is BS and there were substantial warning signs and poor ownership practices.
The extreme statistical overrepresentation of pit bulls in fatal dog attacks, and the increase in these attacks in many places almost entirely in proportion with growth of the pit population, cannot be viably and holistically explained by differences in owner behavior alone.
I don't disagree with you. But most of these were 'rescue' pits(aka shelter pets). These animals should've been euthanized upon intake, and before the pit bull craze most of them didn't get adopted(I do not like this word for obtaining a pet, but it is what is in common use). Pits, like other breeds of their ilk, need to be placed with an experienced and disciplinarian owner at six to eight weeks or not become a family pet. Rednecks with dogs to git them hogs have no trouble with their hunting dogs as family pets- this is specifically a problem of terrible ownership and unadoptable animals.
Would you say the same with a lion? Obviously pit bulls are different than lions but at a certain point the animal is inherently unsafe
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The park is an appropriate place to take a dog, provided it's leashed and doesn't piss or shit anywhere someone might step or slip in. Bar with an outdoor patio is more questionable, but still far better than the aforementioned airplanes, grocery stores, bars/restaurants in general (which usually don't have outdoor areas), especially if you don't let your dog upon a seat or table.
People don't choose their phobias. If I brought my emotional support anaconda into a restaurant, I'd understand if some people were histrionically uncomfortable—even if Luna, my gentle sweet velvet serpent, would never hurt a fly.
Doggo racists of the world, unite!
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