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The entire trans memeplex. Cheerios ads featuring miscegenation. Razor ads that are perceived as anti male. Christmas ads that are insufficiently religious.
But there's my point. The right wing "hates" that stuff, but they would not send their son to therapy (or I guess, Bible camp) and remove their access to a phone/all media if they caught them watching those.
Vaush and Tate are comparable poles of youth-targeted far-left and far-right influencerism, but the chud dad reacts to Vaush with a contemptuous snort, not like the /r/parenting folks above.
My parents weren’t even that religious and they would’ve sent me to Bible camp(or something like it; possibly a summer on a farm with a fundamentalist family) for trans stuff. Possibly for gay stuff, too.
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If I thought my child was actually being influenced by trans-influencers, there is no limit to the drastic action I might take, and many on my side feel the same way. Ideally, I would be able to get them off of it just by explaining how dumb and wrong the influencers are, but if that was not enough, and I had to remove them from a peer and school and institutional situation that really had the tentacles wrapped around my child, God grant me the courage to do any action necessary, including selling my house and moving to a different state.
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I do think there’s something to the “right and left have switched polarities” theory. The people who go the hardest for wokeness today would have been the strictest Christian moralists if they were alive in the 1600s.
I am anti-disapproving-schoolmarm. Back in the 90s and 2000s that means Focus on the Family style religious right. Fretting about sex in movies, bad music and the evils of DND.
Nowadays the culturally dominant disapprovers are progressives. Fretting about Tate and Jordan Peterson and making it a felony to deface a rainbow crosswalk by putting scooter tiremarks on it.
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You must have had very different experiences of Evangelical parents than my friends had growing up. The question of "worldly" things which were a bad influence infected all questions of music, books, movies, friendships.
I can attest to the same, a LOT of media was disallowed due to my evangelical parentage. But I think most people answering this question do not think of evangelicals first, especially since they don't seem to be as numerous as they were 20 years ago. How many parents are banning Spongebob in 2024?
Damn, that makes me think that I will be compared to the evangelicals if I keep my kids from watching modern Blues Clues due to the pride parade segment they showed several years ago. There's a secular basis for my restrictions, damnit!
I think the most logical comparison is probably the right wing Boogeyman of online groomers, turning your kid gay or trans.
The Evangelical treatment of knowledge about homosexuality as inherently seductive towards homosexuality has been widely examined and derided already.
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