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Maybe this is just the availability heuristic, but it does seem to anyone else that the two major political families in American politics (the Trumps and Bidens) are two of the most uniquely toxic and dysfunctional families in the US? This would sound contrived if it happened in a soap opera.
Have you already forgotten about the Clintons? What about the Kennedys?
Obviously the Kennedys held the mantle during the period in which they were the preeminent political family in the states, and probably the Clintons as well.
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I agree with you. IMO both Biden and Trump are in the bottom 25% of presidents generally, they're dysfunctional people who made it to office because of how awful the rest of our political class has been for the past 20-30 years at responding to real economic and social problems in society. Personally I think our politics are just generally degrading, our whole society is degraded now and thus so are our leaders.
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No.
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Why is the Trump family dysfunctional? What is "uniquely toxic" about the Trump family?
The story above, coupled with:
Trump's weird habit of openly lusting over his own daughter
Trump's ex-wife accusing him of rape
Trump's second wife almost certainly being unfaithful to him
Trump's current wife's obvious distaste for him
Trump paying a porn star to have sex with him, along with his numerous other extra-marital affairs during at least two of his marriages
Trump Jr. getting embroiled in a messy divorce and custody battle
Point 2 is a big nothingburger. She admitted she only claimed that to squeeze him in divorce proceedings. She later clarified that he never physically raped her, but his emotional distance was a sort of emotional rape.
I'm sure what you're saying is true, but do you have a source?
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