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Culture War Roundup for the week of August 26, 2024

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My wife really wants to make one with inane or insane things on it. In this house we believe... Dallas Sucks...Thomas Paine is the forgotten founding father...Nulla crux nulla corona...Demian Maia defeated Anderson Silva for the UFC middleweight title according to the ten point must scoring system...the hanging curveball... high fiber... good scotch... that the novels of Susan Sontag are self-indulgent overrated crap... I believe Lee Harvey Oswald acted alone. I believe there ought to be a Constitutional amendment outlawing Astroturf and the designated hitter. I believe in the sweet spot, soft core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Goodnight.

I have this hanging in my dining room.

My wife really wants to make one with inane or insane things on it

https://i.imgur.com/tQBp2oa.png

After this exchange happened earlier this year, I joked with my wife about making a sign that says "in this house we believe the Beatles are good music".

I think that is the closest thing I have to religion, in that I was raised with my family praising the Beatles all the damn time, and I got sick of them and branched out musically, rebelling against my family. But my family still ultimately instilled this value in me that I do fundamentally think the Beatles are good music, and I'm willing to fight to defend them.

There’s an Etsy seller with a variety of insane in this house we believe signs. I can’t seem to find the storefront(it may be defunct), but things like ‘Bigfoot is real… I’m going to kiss him’ was just the tip of the iceberg.

I've got an Internet one I want to make: Traps are not gay Shrek is love, Shrek is life Anime was a mistake Your waifu is shit Epstein didn't kill himself