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The right wing narrative about women seeking abortions is either ‘sluts who don’t know who the baby daddy is’ or ‘deadbeat/abusive boyfriend doesn’t want to be a dad and strong armed the woman’.
I will agree with you that the she demons are probably not very common, but they aren’t very common in the right wing narrative either.
I've seen little to no discussion of the women who get abortions on the right in the last 20 years. The whole discussion is around the baby and how its right to be alive trumps any other possible consideration. The sluts thing is all mental models erected by the pro-life crowd and probably memed about by some greentexters.
I mean, yes, almost always having sex that leads to an abortion itself was a fundamentally foolish act. And I've seen enough of the men in the criminal justice system who are adjacent to the communities where abortion is most in demand, sex with any of those fellas is a deep form of self hate/sabotage, but this is all stuff that is taboo to discuss, not something you see at National Review.
In my tiny part of the right, at least, there is still discussion of the women who get abortions. But it's not calling them sluts, it's usually calling them HR harpies who find making useless PowerPoints for $60k a year more fulfilling than motherhood. Or generally other attacks along those lines of enjoying meanginless careers, or vapid and empty lifestyles, more than motherhood.
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