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Do you really think this passes an ideological turing test and accurately models the reaction of marginal democrats and independents? Also, why do you think a 30-year-old sex scandal would hurt Harris when multiple such scandals haven't hurt Trump?
There's a big difference between sex to get ahead and sex once you get ahead.
Harris is accused of using sex to get her first job in politics. Trump is accused of using his wealth/Fame/position to get sex.
This is mostly a gendered dynamic, but it's also more elemental than that. Consider: if instead of fucking Willie Brown to get ahead for politics, Kamala had used her position as Senator or VP to sleep with AJ Brown the eagles wide receiver for pleasure. Totally different dynamic, different accusations would be hurled towards her.
Sex-for-promotion has the principle-agent problem, absent in power-for-sex. Feminists might accuse Trump of abusing "power dynamics" and make Clinton's affair tantamount to rape of Lewinsky, but in the end the only victims are their sex partners.
But if Kamala got her job only because of her skills in bed, then the aggrieved party is the organization in which she was unfairly promoted by a guy she is said to have gave head to.
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Men and women are not the same. A man sleeping around is powerful. A women using her sexuality for favors is not powerful.
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Because there are fundamentally different optics for the two of them. They're competing for the office of the presidency, a position in which it helps to have a fearsome reputation among your enemies. Trump plowing through women is a sign of strength and vigor, moral arguments notwithstanding. Kamala sucking dick for clout makes her sound incompetent and submissive. These are not Commander In Chief qualities.
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Because she's a woman.
Doesn't that just make people more sympathetic to her, and more likely to give her the benefit of the doubt?
While I think the extent of the double standard is overstated, it really is much more acceptable for a man to be promiscuous than a woman.
Men and women are not the same, so different standards apply, and I'm tired of pretending otherwise (even some radfems are, funnily enough).
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Not in cases of sexual immorality. The double standard exists for a lot of reasons but it does exist.
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