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Small-Scale Question Sunday for July 7, 2024

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Interviewing for a new job, in the final steps. The recruiter has stated that the team lead wants to chat before they extend an offer as a get-to-know-you type of thing.

They have provided the team lead's linked in profile, and they're very clearly a "gender-goblin": purple hair with side shave, dressed as if they're at a renn-faire, pronouns galore, lots of posts about promoting DEI and complaints about white men.

Being a straight-white-male, what's the best way to approach this interview and potentially disarm this person's anti-straight-white-male prejudices? Do I ask about the company's DEI efforts and policies (even though I don't give a shit)? Do I attempt to come off as gay as possible (not too hard, I have gay-ish hobbies and I can fake a lisp)?

I really want this job, it would result in a 40% salary bump and my current job is sliding into a shit show. It would really suck to have it tanked by some progressive golem at the last mile.

You do what you always do in interviews, come off as a more positive, secure and high energy version of yourself.

What these people want is affirmation, not for you to pretend to be gay. If asked you can play up whatever interest you think aligns with theirs but nothing more than that. Ask about them and what they believe and what their goal is, not the company's policies, you're past HR.

Go for it, just find the persxn's bluesky account and practice all of this week's shibboleths. Getting good at taqiyya is the most important job skill a white man can have, because God knows being good at the work doesn't help when 80% of applicants are pre-screened solely by DEI departments.

If it helps, you have my permission to call me your boyfriend from Canada/not from Canada. But camping up the gay is probably a bad idea now that white gays are mostly considered potential traitors and wreckers.

Hol' up, there's an actual Arabic word for "hiding your power level"?

Yes. Have you not heard of it before?

I mean I suppose I’m probably around more actual islamophobes than you, but I thought it was common knowledge that Muslims are theoretically allowed to lie about what they believe to infidels.

No, never. It's a fascinating concept. Especially when contrasted with the Christian lionization of saints who refused to even pretend to renounce their faiths and were put to death in consequence.

I've been meaning to explore it more and make a post about it.

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