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PaperclipPerfector  6mo ago (text post)   3857 thread views

Small-Scale Question Sunday for May 19, 2024

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I see a much bigger rise in prevalence in women and assume the usual causes, for instance I've had a number of female friends and family members asked me if they should get a tattoo, if they'll be judged for it, will men hate it etc. I say nothing. Which is the same approach I assume most people use. The judgement for tattoos is still there, but saying anything that can be interpreted as critical to a woman is such a bad idea that people say nothing and the gap in preferences goes unchallenged.

It sounds to me like you are doing your friends and family a serious disservice. If they ask you for your opinion, and you really do think it's a bad idea to get a tattoo, then imo you should tell them that.

https://x.com/robkhenderson/status/1323302896352530433

Oy. At least cite the stats directly!

I actually made this post because I was at a community pool and noticed some mid-teen girls who seemed to be the extremely shy and introverted type, the type who I would have expected to be more reserved. And even they had a few tattoos on their arms.

'Yes girl, get that skin ink. Any man who doesn't appreciate your body art isn't worth your time to begin with. Why are your dating options restricted to gloomy wannabe artists and underemployed manchildren? No idea, just keep slaying queen'

gloomy wannabe artists

My ears are burning.

Yeah, weird, my hostility to tattoos is dropping by the minute. Underemployed manchildren too, you say?

Tatted anorexic goths look great at 20, but tats look shit on even skinny old women. Collagen is magic skin elasticity juice, and the potions stopping their work means three wolf moon starts looking like droopy and drippy

don't worry babe my soundcloud totally speaks to the soul, got two new listens last week. Spotifys gonna pick me up on the trending page. we are out of rollies now though so can you pick up another shift at Safeway?

STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT

Joking aside I have a real job and music is a passion project I pursue in my spare time.

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