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Culture War Roundup for the week of May 6, 2024

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Please specify which of the above you disagree with.

I disagree with your constant immature behavior. The deliberate exaggeration of your opponent's views even as you do the same the same to them. Accusing others of lying about your views even as you are lying about your own views. I don't particularly like the constant deflections either.

Now that you have discovered that your proposal will destroy a culture (as determined by Nybbler), are you willing to pursue it?

  • Yes.

  • What the hell does Nybbler's opinion of my views have to do with my willingness to pursue the solution I proposed?

  • You are, again, deliberately misrepresenting his views.

The deliberate exaggeration of your opponent's views

Items 1 and 2 in my list is my description of my opponent's views. If you think there is an exaggeration, tell me where you think it is, specifically. I don't particularly like the constant deflections either.

Now that you have discovered that your proposal will destroy a culture (as determined by Nybbler), are you willing to pursue it?

Yes.

Ok, now we have discovered that you are willing to destroy a culture. I could act like you and claim that this means that you're willing to destroy the entire culture of tinkering, but that would feel a bit like an exaggeration, wouldn't it?

You are, again, deliberately misrepresenting his views.

Tell me, specifically, how I am misrepresenting his views. I don't particularly like the constant deflections either.