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PaperclipPerfector  8mo ago (text post)   2995 thread views

Small-Scale Question Sunday for March 3, 2024

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"I would respond to someone's principled, albeit harsh, verbal condemnation with physical violence."

LOL + YesChad.jpg -- honestly the responses here are brutal, you guys seem to be all about the traditional values without wanting to accept the traditional consequenses.

There not one thing in the world more trad than beating the shit out of a guy who runs down your woman, regardless of whether he thinks he's being 'principled' about it -- you must run in some awfully rarified circles if you don't know this.

OP is talking about his friend and about his (OP's) intention to relate his own reservations about a potential mate.

This isn't a random guy drunk at a bar smacking your lady's butt or making lewd comments.

Context is important and I think it's important you've decided, on purpose, to de-contextualize in order to make an "omg look at these dorks argument," Chad.

There not one thing in the world more trad than beating the shit out of a guy who runs down your woman...you must run in some awfully rarified circles if you don't know this.

I am willing to bet all of my Confederate script you have never beat the shit out a guy who "r[a]n down your woman."

I am willing to bet all of my Confederate script you have never beat the shit out a guy who "r[a]n down your woman."

True -- guys around here mostly know not to do that.

If he is truly the guy's friend he may get a pass on the shitkicking, but truly "sorry dude, you are no longer a part of my life" is like, table stakes for this kind of thing.

MYOB as usual is the best policy -- and if you don't want it implied that you are an uptight dork, don't act like one. Maybe you have never done anything fun/stupid in your life, but taking excessive interest in others who have is indeed pretty dorky. (sorry/not sorry)

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