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Did he pour the drinks down her gullet? Yes, alcohol impairs your judgement. And yet you are still responsible for the choices you make, wise or foolish they might be.
He didn't, but the social contract between two people getting drunk together and ending up in bed to regret it later doesn't traditionally include four other guys in the same bed.
If you get blackout drunk with a sexy lady that approached you in the bar and wake up with your kidney missing, do you say, "oh well, I am responsible for the choices I made, live and learn"? Or do you contact the police?
What person has ever consented to having their kidney removed, inebriated or otherwise?
EDIT: Yes I've read that one article by Scott. I should have said "what person has ever consented to having their kidney removed by a stranger with no medical training in a hotel bathroom, inebriated or otherwise?"
Entirely not the point....but kidney donors? As we have two, it can be done with a live donor.
See my edit.
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I know of at least one:
https://www.astralcodexten.com/p/my-left-kidney
Touché. Perhaps I should clarify: what person has ever consented to having their kidney removed by a stranger with no medical training in a hotel bathroom, inebriated or otherwise.
TBF it sounded like one could have maybe talked Scott into something like that given the difficulty he encountered getting his sober consent taken seriously by the proper doctors!
Lol fair
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https://www.astralcodexten.com/p/my-left-kidney
Touché. Perhaps I should clarify: what person has ever consented to having their kidney removed by a stranger with no medical training in a hotel bathroom, inebriated or otherwise.
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