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Leaving aside the arguments against it you've already mentioned, I am utterly unconvinced that seeing porn is "bad" for kids. The majority of studies on the longterm effects on pornography showed just about zilch in terms of effect, be it on sexual violence or anything else. The fact that conservatives consider it "obvious" is of little consequence to me here. The entire debacle seems to be far more concerned with arguments from moral purity rather than concrete harm, and I have an exceedingly dim opinion of those. Parents who want their kids to not watch porn should invest in parental controls, not a nanny-state, not that either will really work.
Well, at least it might make the little tykes more tech-savvy, at least they'll learn to use VPNs or even just torrent videos. Or else they might just learn to develop a vivid imagination, you don't need porn to jerk it, don't ask me how I happen to know that. I'll pour one out for the poor aphantasics.
As others have mentioned, this is going to be almost impossible to study.
I don't need to prove porn leads to rule-breaking or delinquency for it to be a net negative. That's not what I'm concerned about. The hedonistic treadmill available in pornography is astonishing. "Our" generation had the fences of bandwidth and screen resolution around us - and even so there was Goatse, One Guy One Jar, LemonParty.
I would be hard pressed to find someone who thinks that moving from a squirreled-away lingerie catalog to piss-bangs was healthy for their sexuality. Of course Close Your Eyes Haha and all that, but asking a teenage boy to do so isn't a historically simple ask.
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I don't know where that meme comes from, but the studies I see show negative effects on adolescent exposure:
If you want the keyword that gets all the salacious articles on Google Scholar, search "“Problematic pornography use.” It is a subset of and is the most common manifestation of CSBD (Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder) in the ICD-11.
What studies are you looking at that show otherwise?
All of those demonstrate correlation and not causation, but thank you for tracking them down. Certainly I don't care at all if their parents disapprove of them consuming porn, as one of the concerns quoted.
Here's an example of what I recall from Psychology Today
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/talking-apes/202104/does-porn-use-lead-sexual-violence
And:
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1359178909000445
Emphasis added.
The experimental research Ferguson and Hartley mention are mainly varieties of showing a college student a video and asking them to answer a survey immediately after. I would not expect that this experimental design is able to detect the effects anti-porn activists are concerned with. Many of these college students likely regularly engage in porn, muddying the waters.
The studies on pornography showing positive effects on attitudes towards women explicitly exclude violent porn. "It is important to note that in the present paper, the focus of our literature review and research is on pornography represented by examples such as Playboy, sexually explicit but nonviolent videos, and adult movie channels." Garos, Beggan, Kluck, and Easton (2004) Are parents supporting these bills worried that their children might stumble on a Playboy magazine, or are they worried their kids are watching an 18 year old girl in a simulated gang rape?
They were studying such a different phenomena from what we are experiencing today.
Regarding the correlational studies, 98% of men in America have watched internet porn in the last six months. When there are so many people in one group, and so few people in the other group, correlational statistics get wonky. Looking at kids is the only way to get a large sample of people who haven't been exposed yet.
It also seems weird to blame the decrease in violent crime in the US on the proliferation of pornography, when there are so many other things to blame, like decreasing lead levels in childhood, increased abortion rates among impoverished groups, etc. I am not familiar with what happened in Denmark during this time, maybe they had a lead problem as well? But being able to cherry pick three other countries that match the correlation does not hold a huge amount of weight. One hypothesis that fits the evidence could be that we would see even less rape if pornography had not proliferated.
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Potential confounds abound and no one is going to be able to conduct an RCT for this.
Anecdotally a lot of men report “porn brain” interfering with their ability to have normal relationships with women. Having decided to be done with porn about a year ago, I do notice a difference. But there’s a also a finding-religion confound in my case.
Self-reports from those who can't access a counterfactual surely would be strongly biased by explanations that are available and believed in our society. Some centuries ago, people would have reported humoural deficiencies as the cause of their problems.
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Would you mind writing more about this, when you have a chance? Religiosity among Motteposters is very interesting to me, as I've been wandering a bit down that path.
I would be interested, if the mods give a green light, in doing a standalone thread for motteizeans to write about religion in their lives.
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