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A huge portion of blue tribe culture is oppositional to red tribe culture, and vice versa.
For comparison, a local middle school student started a "Satan Club," people got upset about it. Local evangelical churches held prayer meetings about it. I was pulling my hair out at the sheer obtuse stupidity of publicly announcing how much the annoying middle schoolers who set out to annoy you had annoyed you. Ignored, the Satan Club was lame, the lamest most annoying goth neckbeards at your local school. Opposed, they were hilarious and awesome. Watching church moms get their panties in a twist about it, against myself I was kinda impressed. When people are that easily trolled, how can you blame people for trolling them?
Right, but I maintain this is not what happened with trans issues. With your scenario the proper comparison would be the school itself implementing a curriculum teaching the kids Satan is our lord and savior, it's not something that can be won over by ignoring it.
Similarly when you ssend your kid to a psychologist, because they're having issues, and before you know it, the kid comes back with a prescription for blockers or hormones, that's not a problem you'll solve by pretending it's it's not there.
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