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Fights on the job are often enough considered just part of the job, rather than serious crimes. It's the white-collar world which is weird in that you so rarely get fights and if you do not only is someone going to get fired they're likely going to jail.
Idunno what professions you are talking about but between all the manual labor jobs i've ever done the boss uniformly does not think its part of the job to be fighting the other guys instead of like, working. I've seen dudes get jumped outside of work for stealing another guys pill bottle and shit like that but if it happened "on the job" people would for sure be getting fired.
Construction was the main one, but I know of another though it's a bit too specific. And yeah, the bosses don't like it and people get fired, but if the cops got called every time someone on a construction site got into it, they'd have no time to do anything else.
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I, too, have never seen any fights when working construction. Edit: checked with a career tradesperson. When fights occasionally occurred, they would be offsite, usually while drunk. In rare cases of on-site fights, people would quit preemptively or be fired.
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