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I'd argue the main disadvantage of single motherhood is being "raised" by a constantly stressed-out, tired, bitter broad, who usually doesn't get that much help from anyone with childrearing, plus not having a father figure at all, which is rather harmful both to boys and girls, but for different reasons.
Male relatives could fill in that gap, and money can fill in a lot of gaps. I think that the children of wealthy single mothers by choice turn out very differently from those that it just...happened to. These kids are wanted and planned for, and have lots of material resources at their back. That makes a difference.
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I could also see the additional issue of it turning off the guys who might otherwise actually commit to her, as rare as that may be.
Or, the possible complications of her finding an eligible guy after she has the kid and him maybe not being too enthralled about raising the kid without his genetic material, and the impact this may have on the child's development.
I don't think there's any way to fully get around the fact that the best way to get two people TRULY invested in a child's wellbeing is for the child to be the result of both their genetic contributions.
Really, the best service such a woman could perform is to start loudly warning women that they ought to consider settling down earlier if they want to do the kid thing the natural way with an eligible man.
Somehow I doubt most of them would take on that role, though.
True. But I was looking at it from the viewpoint of the child, which is obviously of central importance here. Even though I believe in HBD, I'm sure the effects of the environment cannot be ignored in this case by any means.
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