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No, I don't think the characterization is the issue. I think the issue is that you relitigated your ban without adding any new insight. Can't say I agree that that's really a moddable offense, but it's not like you were banned for it.
I mean, do you think I "relitigated" my ban in the original comment? I thought I was simply pointing out a double-standard... the exact same thing that was being done by the comment I responded to (but which did not receive a mod comment). Is the problem just that I brought receipts? If I just removed the hyperlinks, does the comment suddenly not get modded?
It's more about how you did so without any new insight. You did something annoying, got banned for it, then came back and did somewhat similar annoying stuff, and got a warning for it. The second warning is much much more based on the first instance of behavior than on anything you did the second time around.
On the object level I just disagree with your claim. I've been (somewhat obnoxiously and incompetently) pushing religion here these last few weeks with no pushback at all. This forum is very atheist, but probably less so than most forums, and not obnoxiously so.
This seems to imply that what someone is allowed to say here is dependent upon who they are, not what they say. This can't possibly be right, can it, @Amadan? This would be an utterly perverse policy that encourages people to drop accounts that have been identified as "bad" and create new ones that are allowed to say things that are apparently total legal to say. @Amadan, can you at least see that there is some confusion here about what you've done? That the problem is that you haven't spoken plainly, not that I'm just lying?!
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