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You're ignoring the self-inflicted part. There's no inherent reason why gay men should be more exposed to STDs than any other population.
Fair enough. Although to a large extent, it's just bad luck that HIV is so difficult to vaccinate against/treat paired with much easier anal/i.v. transmission versus vaginal. In a world where HIV was cured with a round of antibiotics similarly to syphilis or gonorrhea I suspect CD would nevertheless hate the gays.
Speaking of self-inflicted diseases necessitating medical intervention, I hope he isn't obese. You could level his argument at more or less the entite developed world and diseases of affluence.
Didn't he point out that the issue of AIDS and other STDs is already preventable? If he hates them, it seems to stem from the lack of precautions they are taking, rather than them being gay.
Yup!
He never mentioned other STDs
The idea that he decides which demographics to hate based on whether they avoid preventable diseases or not is laughable
HIV is not sexually transmitted?
Yeah hate is way too much, I'm at most bemused, and it has at least as much to do with some gay activists acting entitled.
On the other hand, I do remember a lot of hate, for precisely that reason, during COVID times, and I don't recall you laughing.
You said HIV and other STDs. I said he never mentioned other STDs. Why are you claiming that he did?
HIV is largely sexually transmitted, with something like 10% of infections through IV drug use and another 'unknown' bucket that is more or less irrelevant with antiretrovirals. If memory serves.
The idea that liberals decide who to hate based on preventable disease transmission is also laughable. They hated republicans long before COVID, and afaict will hate them for long afterwards. If republicans had been COVID hawks, they would have hated them for shutting down righteous BLM protests and tindr hookups.
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There's a lot of bad information on the effectiveness of condoms for preventing HIV transmission. They're useful, but it's probably closer to an order of magnitude difference for perfect-use, rather than a complete barrier.
((And any look back that includes pre-1986 also has the problem the other direction: a lot of the explosive transmission of HIV and YOLO-esque behavior came about during the Ryan White-era, where people believed that standing too close to or using the same bathroom as a gay man could transmit HIV. Despite the wikipedia summary, they believed that because a lot of mainstream experts were cautioning about it! The devil-may-care behavior regarding condoms during a lot of that time period makes more sense when people reasonably believed that would have little impact.))
No, this is the product of historical revisionism aimed at making homosexuals seem more sympathetic than they actually were and are. The scientists and experts who were at Ground Zero of the AIDS epidemic noted several times that many of their HIV-positive patients were intelligent, savvy men who understood the risks and transmissibility of HIV/AIDS as it was explained to them. They chose to continue spreading HIV anyway, because they simply did not care. See Marcus Conant:
I wonder how much of that was driven by fear and resentment - I have this new disease, it's going to kill me, somebody gave it to me because they didn't know or care they had it and they were too horny and stupid not to stop, so why should I care? Why should I be careful that some son-of-a-bitch will continue to be alive and healthy when I have to die, with all my life ahead of me? If I have to go, they can go too if they're too horny and stupid to live.
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Your cite is from this discussion, discussing philosophy during 1983 by doctors, written in 1996 from interviews in 1992-1995. The same piece also describes out, from the exact same time period (though a different doctor):
The interview references Oleske, but another certain famous asshole had outsized influence.
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