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Full sleeve tattoos, nose rings, piercings, weird shaved on one side of the head haircuts, and rainbow dye colours. Kids these days!
Let's face it, we're just old 😁
I do think those kinds of things make you look ugly be you man, woman, or other, but 🤷♀️
I'm young, and I'm not a fan of any of that. Admittedly in conservative circles where it's relatively uncommon.
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I'll bite the bullet by saying not only do current fashions look bad, but the fashions from when I was kid in the 90s are embarrassing to look at now and Americans were much worse dressed in the 90s than were Americans in the 60s and 70s.
The era of gingham, elephant flares, and cheesecloth? Not to mention polyester and rayon everything? I think we have different memories 🤣
FWIW, I originally had this thought after an evening looking through family photos and it seemed to me that the people in the photos were better dressed in the 70s and than in the 90s or 00s. Yeah, the clothes could be a bit cheesy, but the clothes were more colorful, worn with better fit, and everyone was generally less slovenly.
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I present you the fashion icon of the 1970s.
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One of my pet peeves is the way any unfavorable judgment of an aesthetic trend is treated as a consequence of the critic being old. I grew up with these trends and have hated them for my entire life.
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