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I'm not getting what you're concerned about. The maternity shoot is tacky, I agree. But surrogacy seems like a totally fine thing, and your disgust doesn't really make any sense to me.
"When did society change on this" is one thing, "This is morally wrong" is another. I don't see why we need to accept a limit of biology.
If surrogacy is totally fine, what exactly is tacky about the photo?
Being in the back with her head down and her face obscured makes her look like the "before" part of an SSRI commercial. She's supposed to be looking at the baby, but it doesn't work because the baby isn't the focus of the picture. Either the baby should be the focus and all three of them should be looking at it, or the couple should stay as the focus but she should be looking at them and smiling. As it is, she looks unhappy and disconnected.
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I couldn't explain it, probably just a view I have of what makes a good photo which I haven't interrogated. I think one issue is the way in which the surrogate is just hanging around the back. If they had her front and center with them, I think I'd cringe less.
The surrogacy doesn't bother me either, but that photo kind of looks to me like a meme image, maybe you're getting the same vibe. By putting her in the back with her head down, I expect a caption underneath like "I'm having their damn baby and they just keep gazing at each other smdh". It blows my mind that the photo was her idea.
Edit: I mean ffs it's called our "maternity" shoot, inverted commas implying irony and everything, and the pregnant woman is not even in focus, you could even interpret it as saying these two guys don't give a shit about the baby, they only care about themselves and what a baby will give them. Was this chick throwing a master-class in shade?
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